I’m sick of being the third wheel-- fifth  or seventh wheel if you like. I act like it doesn’t bother me when we’re all hanging out, but really, it becomes just another painful reminder that I’m not with some significant other. When I see happy couples outside, things tend to get even worse. Sometimes I envy them, other times I quickly turn to some other direction just not to feel bad seeing them having a good time.

People tell me that they don’t understand why I’m single. I’m smart, I’m attractive, I’m successful…I should have girls lining up to date. Or so they say. They can’t pick anything out that’s wrong with me so I shouldn’t really be single. I’m tired of people saying that they’re sure I’ll meet someone who’s wonderful and smart and more beautiful than all of the girls.

I doesn’t help going to movies, concerts, play, or some other event that would be a lot of fun to take a date on. And then just not going. I’ m tired of eating dinner alone, on the floor, in front of the TV. My kitchen table gets no use, as there’s no need for setting it when it’s just me eating there. My sofa isn’t nearly as comfortable without someone to cuddle with. I wonder about all the stories and talks that could be told together, if only there were someone to tell them to. But alas, it's just me and my loneliness. Again.

Thanks for reading my rant.

 dude stop hanging out with the wrong crowd! 

 you're writing this cuz you're single n of course, vice-versa !!! wont help
 
lil suggestion, instead of sajha, how abt them match.com? eharmony? matrimony - desi-panjabi-nepali ?? lol 

later.. will you realise that u were better off this way... 

Ye stay warned, coz winter is coming! 

you are single, you will always be single

Don't worry when I wrote that. Just look at yourself, you are wanting to have someone to share your times with, which is okay but just putting your whole effort and soul on following that desire is nonsense.  Why should you be envy looking at other couples? Do you think they really are happy? May be but do you really think they are? They say we descended from our APE ancestors who always emulated behaviors looking at things. May be thats why we want to do things what other people do. Dude, to share love we need another form of life , TRUE but it doesn't necessarily have to be a woman, you can adopt a pet and share your love to it.

I'm telling you by my experience, some relations work but most are running on compromise and conditional love. You do that, I do that, where were you when I was calling, why didn't you call me, why did you look/talk at that girl.. all these kind of shits come bundled with the thing you are wanting.

I'm so happy that I tried twice in my life and they're all same. Wanting to put me on leash like I'm their pet. Excuse me, I'm a free soul nobody can bind me. I'm also a compassionate and kind one and often tend to help people regardless of what sex they are. And, I think this is what I am. I don't run after things, I ask and share experiences and try to bring happiness in people face. We are all alone dude, don't think this illusionary companionship as something immortal. We're here for a drama, we do it and we start some other drama somewhere else in different dimension after we're done here. It's a learning process. My intention is always to put up positive drama. I learned a lot and still learning, that's the interesting part. Everyday there is something to learn. 

Believe me, it sucks. Even if it seems it doesn't, it sucks. Just be hopeful that you'll find someone whose frequency matches up with yours. Don't say, you are sick and tired of listening to this saying but there are pair of frequency everywhere. Yours must have one, the moment you are near it, you'll feel it.

I'm waiting for my real frequency to tune in to. Be warned there are some pretenders out there.

and other thing, being single is a good thing because you don't have to answer to anyone about where you are or what you do. You can come and go as you please without having to ask or get permission. You can date others without having the commitment.

I'm enjoying my self being single and so happy about it, as it let me know who I am and my purpose here is. Being in relationship put stop to all of it, unless the other one also thinks the way you think.

Treat yourself nice and do things that make you happy, don't worry about other for now :D..

If someone is Smart ,attractive and successful I've never heard them suffering from being lonesome , well think about your success ( your carieer i mean ) ,if you had not bend up and down  ,make yourself work hard you wouldn't be successful right? So is other things in life ,if you have some desire of something it just won't come by flying ,you have to give your time for that as well, do your homework ! think about what type you are ,what you want in partner ,and vice versa ,But be ready to give up somethings (sometimes many things) if you want to be in relationship,  it 's easy and complex at the sametime ,anyway having those lonelyness won;t take you any where ,like some guys here said you will one day wish you were single ,then what you gonna do? ,so final point just enjoy the moment, involve in some social events ,parties,clubs ,whatever interests you've ,then things will go from there .I used to feel same sometimes at that stage of my age ,but later i found out those were my best moments of life i enjoyed : D, I'm just sharing here doesn't mean i 'm pro or anything about these things, i totally agree with @bittertruth.

 i feel you man. I used to feel the same after i broke up. But then i started to do things that i can do only when im single. Like not washing my dishes when i eat or trying to flirt with other girls...its more fu to flirt than to be ina  relation. So, try to feel happy being a single. Many people get envious from single people. So why not enjoy yout single life. Enjoyit as it is not for so long, single life is what i mean by not so long.

Grass is always greener at the other side.

@alece i envy single people toooo..... Its way more fun to flirt than to be in relation

 I think you have been single  for long enough...look at it with this prespective: Now when you mingle, you won't take it for granted.....you will charish always for having your significant other by your side always.... you will find that special someone soon...

 Ofcourse its fun to be signle but with conditions...if you are single with a choice, if you are not ready to settle with someone and you go out on weekends and wake up with a girl next to you..but those mostly happens in movies..

What guy  doesn't want a hot FWB. First you will never feel lonely and also have your own space and freedom. But unfortunately its mostly a dream..i need to get up and go to work now..hehe

@Lonesome, I can feel you ....... Enjoy the moment dude......
@Bittertruth:: ......very very well said.......

 If you have a great control over your urges, you should be fine. 

लोनसम ब्रोको लोन्लीनेसको क्योरको नीम्ती आजको मीती देखी मैले दीनको एक एक्सट्रा हस्तमैथून दीने घोषणा गर्दछू॥
टव्न्टीएट्थ ।

Someday u will get married and will laugh at yourself that u posted the blog at some point of life. :) enjoy the the single life bro. I envey u....

भृकुटी मण्डपमा कुनै जमानामा ' जसले हेर्यो तेही पछुतायो , जसले हेरें त्यो झनै पछुतायो" - एउटा बुथ मा टासिएको थियो रे  अनि टिकट प्रति व्यक्ति १ र Adults only.

लौ अब मनन गर्नुस के थियो त्यो , हेरे पनि नहेरे पनि पछुताउने ?

ब्रो यो चिज खाए पनि पछुताउने , नखाए स्वाद नपाएर पछुताउने .

Thats so sweet. Especially the cudding part. I hope you will find someone if you approach her. Look harder, she might be just there and you weren't paying attention.

I lot of married people are wishing they were single. A lot of single people are wishing they were married. This is why we have poems, movies, novels and songs. It's called life.