well, a best friend of mine who is newly married happened to visit massage parlour in Thamel. He is very happy with his wife but accidently he had sex with a prostitute there. And unfortunately while doing sex his condom did not work and let it fall into her......he said that she assured him not to wory of anything wrong. Now he is very much tense and worried about his life and wife. He suspects he might be infected with HIV....he said he is afraid and has not commited any physical relation with his wife....his wife too is sad with this behaviour...can anybody tellme what is the possibility of AIDS with him?.........can anyboy tellme some best sites about AIDS so tht i could refer him for knowledge...help us

It is 100% possible for people like that..................

According to the docytors, HIV cannot be seen for 3 months, so he will have to wait and test for HIV after 3 months. Till then he can sit and think over what he did.

raw_mess : i think ur frend messed up life now .. ! though he might not have AIDS ... but he's mentally got AIDS rest of his life ... !

I'm responding to this message because I am a researcher in HIV/AIDS.

1. Does your friend know for certain that this lady he had sex with is HIV+ or had AIDS?

2. Having sexual intercourse with an HIV+ person DOES NOT necessarily mean you will contract the virus. Like someone said in this thread, there is a 3 month window period after which the virus shows up in your blood-stream.

3. If it is at all possible, and I know it's tough, he should discuss his problem with his wife. Perhaps he can take the help of a professional such as a counselor.

4. The CDC (Center for Disease Control) website should have helpful info. about HIV/AIDS. Here it is:

http://www.cdc.gov/

Look under "diseases and conditions".

Hope this helps. Don't panic. Good luck.

First, take that lady with you and check her blood. If she doesnt have AIDS, then you should feel that you are safe.
One of my friend did the same after days of tension.

don't worry dog...let's hope he is not infected with HIV...first take him to doctor make sure if he is ok...tha'ts kool if he is ok and if by the way he is infected tell him to live life happy with full enjoyment but should not harm anyone...