I why do I have to be a bastard to the person that I love? What does that say about me? Always verbal and physical abuse. I always have to be right even then I am proven wrong. I can't control my temper. Who's right in love? Is that the nepali way? Is there a better way? How can I control my temper? Will I lose the person that I love?

as far as i have learned ,love is an attitude of mind which changes as time and things around us change.i dont see any point of getting involved in love coz when things go bad ,u'll curse the person.it doesn't make sense at all.finally 'ek se mera kya hoga'.

well Mr.Denverbroncos (by the way broncos sucks...no offense),
It seems to me like to me that you are control freak...and u dont "love" the person that u are with coz who would in their right mind would "Always verbal and physical abuse" their loved ones.
And if u do really love them as much then u should let them go...being with u is just gonna hurt them mentally and physically.

PS as for your temper issues....go get checked-in

Just a thought ;)
rani

if u get pissed off, take a deep breath and drink some water. always helps me.. now that u know u are short tempered, make a conscious effort not to get angry, especially with ur loved one... take things lightly.. hope u will get and feel better!

Please need your help. Help me.

Is it ok to push and hit people just because your anger or just because they made you anger. Who right in that situation.

माया

माया दिने देखे
माया लिने देखे
माया सम्झी हास्ने
माया कल्पी रुने

मायालाइ नै पूजा
माया छैन दुजा
माया के हो कुन्नी
थाहै नहुने

माया गर्ने देखे
माया छिन्ने देखे
मायाको निम्ती
मृत्यु साट्ने देखे

माया नै निद्रा
माया नै सुर्ता
माया नै पिडा
माया नै ब्यथा

माया कै भरमा
संसार त्याग्ने देखे
माया कै निम्ती संसार जोडने देखे
माया मै रुमल्लिने बैस पनि भेटे
माया सम्झी रुने अध्बैस नि भेटे

माया गर्नेको प्रश्न पनि सुने
माया किन कठोर?
माया कस्तो अठोट्?
माया किन महँगो?
माया किन सस्तो?

मायाको किन उपहास?
माया किन हुन्छ अनायाश्?

कस्ले बनायो माया?
किन जन्मायो माया?
माया गर्नेले छोड्छन किन?
छोड्नेले माया लाउछन किन?

It looks like you gonna get serious problem man. Would u like to jail for Domestic Voilence, sexual assult, harrasment or things like that? You could easily go to jail for that thing. Check in the internet for local laws. You don't wanna deal with cops, court and things like that, do you? You need to calm down otherwise u a$S will be grass.

DenverBronco, calm down man! Sayangja jau......Chandimai will hold your temper. Calm down....