How could you get rid of human addiction?I mean if you know someone for a long time...HE/She has been there for you when u needed them the most...and now u r addicted to his/her company that you demand attention all the time even knowing that he/she has more important things and persons in life......and now it is time to realise and move on?.is there any better way to get rid of this addiction than completely stopping everything and to disappear from the scene..... isn't it better than being disappointed everytime?

sometimes people get like that...especially if they are a constant part of your life. But in time you'll get used to it..especially ones you start getting bz with life as well.

Thanks Cerine, I hope it shud work.... ......

To disappear completely just because you are addicted to someone is a bad and coward way to react, you are fooling yourself and making the other person feel bad. You should learn to accept that the other person also has things that he has to take care of like you sometimes may have. That is part of life. Just because the other person is busy with something does not mean that he does not care. You should not come to a conclusion that he / she is trying to avoid you. If the other person is busy with things in his / her life and you just leave him / her just because you feel attached to this person’s company, what do you think that he/she might feel, don’t you think that he/she might feel left behind.
You are being selfish to think only for your feeling, do you think that this other person is very happy to loose a friend, after all you say you felt good in his/her company, which means he/she also has been in your company.
Tell the other person not to come too close and you should not do that either, you should respect his/her boundaries and he/she should respect yours. Learn to accept the fact that you both have different things in life to do, guide your feelings somewhere else and use each other for consultants. Consulting to each other and respecting each other’s way of life and consults, leads you both to a better friendship.
But just completely ignoring and leaving the other person will make both you and the other person sad in a way, But of course the choice is yours, we all have to make our own choices and live with it.
But the best way to keep your feelings away from him/her is to guide your feelings somewhere else and keep your self busy in other things that interest you most.
;)

Nepali version of Fatal Attraction?

Kohinoor,

The only solution to your problem is flying by CONAIR... if you know what I mean.

Fly CONAIR... forget about your airman.

kohinoor...

i guess with diff ppl..it works differently?..so yeah not gonna bhawash on ways that i feel might help ;oP hehe...

but yeah being busy and havin no time to think or worry def helps i guess(did i jus contradict my above sentence again?;oP hehe)...how do u do get busy?malai ke tha!:o| sathi haru le malai ta mero too much time cha bhancha :oS..ani that i dun use my time properly bhancha :oS..

ani human addiction?as in attachment?it comes and goes hoina?durin the start of the break of the attachment ..its always hard..feels hard?..actually most things durin the start always feels hard?hehe..but sooner or later..u be pretty suprised..how strong u r..;o)...time def helps..and do know..im sure u wont end up in such a bad state later(hopefully not :oD hehe)..since u do seem to be already helpin urself a bit by askn for help?talkin about it?once ur tryn to help urself..ur on the right track ;o) hehe...

ani runnin away chai malai tha chaina..some chooses to do that cos they need a complete break with themselves and re-energise and be able to think properly?away from the rush and everything?...but well each their own..as my fren told me..smtimes we choose 'flight'..sometimes we choose 'fight'...good luck with watever u choose(esp if ur were talkin about urself ;oP hehe)..

and oh about that other thread..never knew about the story of 'kohinoor' until u shared..so now know a bit thanks to u re kya ;o) hehe...ani dherai dun get lost in urself hai..cos smtimes when we start existin in this world that we never felt belonged..before we realise it..we feel like we are findin out about ourselves?and of cos some other carin ppl findin us too ;oP hehe..i mean wats the chance of u or anyone knowin u..cos in ur lost world ..only u r there?and u too pani lost?who will find u?not u!and def not anyone!?:o| hehe...ok ok dunno wat im typin(mero fav line?hah;oP hehe)...

may u have a life longer than ur airman..cos well when ur livin..ur airman lives and exist the way u make him out to be hoina ;o)...

good day and good luck!:oD

(ps darn i dunno why but i cant stop feeln i deserve a glass of fresh cold "nourising" lemonade right now ;oP hehe)

Hey Kohinoor when u discover a complete solution send that to me too. i need a solution too.
Why don't u try getting addicted to something else? That what i do.

Hey the best solution for that is get busy wid anything 24 hrs..
I didn't mean to say don't sleep....... you need to get ur mind engaged everytime.. whenever u are free listen to music.........


I am totally musically influenced person.......... I listen to music whenever there is any problem..... wid meh...... and I forget those stuffs ...... widin a while....

I can't help ur more than this coz I ain't that good in giving ideas....... for problem or I ain't a problem solver.. Kohinoor

Addicted to company and demand attention?
Sounds like u have some sort of crush on him/her.

Things might work:
Keep yourself busy
Try to be more independence
Make other friends
Find BF is still available
Get married if single
Try counseling
Move away far

If non of above works
Heheh..get in to big fight...just kick his/her assss, have ur assssss kicked too. That person will out of your life and u will get out of this misery.

Hola todos,
Gracious, a lot of thanks!.Yeah, the words really helped me in one way or the other.......thanks all of you...Well I believe in GOD...and he never lets me down...TOUCH WOOD!...And here I am this morning with a brand new me.....A friend is a not a friend if he/she does not accept you the way you are, rite? So here I am with a brand new conclusion...An early morning call changed my whole look towards this matter...Take everything normally and it will soothe out...so here I am staying brave rite there not turning my back..it is not worth crying for.......and facing it....and I don't care about it at all.and am not gonna talk either... I will just remain silent ..dead silent.yeah I may sound selfish here..but.it is the only solution I have got to make someone dumb realise that I EXIST....and I AM....
So thanks buddies..and guess wat....I got free passes for tonite party..and thanks to a fren I can take all my frens out there for free drink.......................haha..so am busy and I don't bother at all...
Wish me luck..I want to be emotionally independent again!!!!....

I am actually going through that phase!! I dont know what to do and i m SO addicted to him and totally dependent on him.
Things are messed up and i would suggest if i had any suggestion unfortunately i m experiencing the same.

cant advise anything except WISH YOU LUCK

SerAh
X0X0X

ufff.... you girls. It's better to stay away from you.

Too much drama.

Pupiffy:-
So insensitive!!

STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SeRaH
XoXoXoX

I'm trying to.... but can't help it.

too much drama?

but the drama is what makes everything sooo much more interesting haina?
i thot that's why people watch those movies:-S

anyway good luck to you all :-D who are trying to get away from people. Be persistent and eventually things will become easier

Drama looks good in movie, not in real life.

** JUST WALK AWAY ** - by kelly clarkson

and Cerine is RIGHT!!

SerAh

XoXoXoX

I walk a lonely road of the boulevard of broken dream.

Don't know where it goes but its home top me and I walk alone

I walk the empty street on the boulevard of broken dreams

WHere the city sleeps and I'm the only one walking alone.

I walk alone
I walk alone