IF you had an ultra-smart, rich, good-at-heart guy as your b/f that u used to love, but that so called 'love' is fading and you don't feel for him as much. Everything is still perfect, and you'd envy if that guy was in someone else's arms, but things are too normal..you dont know what you really want at this point. what would you do?

badarnikt

katti jpt bhani ra

hehe anyways daamiz dialouge deu nee ta

timi ta film ma khelna jaanu parney

yaha k gari ra

malai bhana ta chito

DC_Girl:

I don't understand your dilemma on the first place- you are saying "Everything is still Perfect" at one time, and at the same time you are pointing that "So called Love is fading away."

I know your perplexicity at this moment- it happens to everybody, some part of their lives. I think you are very confused with your life, if not before, but at least for the time being. It may reflects your stagnant life, which is going nowhere. And I don't think so that mingling with new friends or boyfriends is going to ameliorate your situation. My suggestion is if you are very confused, try not to confuse others.

Easy with life...!!!
By the way, the irony of all of this is- If you are not confused, then you are not living properly....
:-)

Q

Moreover, people try to correlate their lives with some dramatic situation. They try to imitate celluloid drama to reality, and this really mess up their lives. Girls and Boys are so much indulged in dramatic plot that anticipating uphill-climax-downhill plot, they just miss very joyous moment that time. This should be a wake-up-call for everybody, but I wish...

Just live in this very moment- "Kal Ho Naa Ho...!!!"

I see this thread is back!! I didnt even know that Sandeep had passed a comment.. So ahem.. let me clear my throat and start my speech!!
The moral of "Every relationship has its ups and downs" was not derived by reading any stories. I think that statement is self evident. I dont think there is any relation where you dont have some quarrels or maybe times when you just get mad at someone! No matter what the relation is. Lets say me and my best friend have a fight.. does she stop being my friend just because I failed to agree with what she was saying? And there are other instances when you doubt if she is your true friend at all.. hey we are humans we have negative thoughts in our mind once and again...

But my point is.. though there are times when we think that things are not going as good BUT once they were perfect.. it might just be a phase. I mean if I had a guy and still thought that he was cute, understanding and all that but we were not able to communicate, then I would not call it quits. I would try to see whats wrong. BUT of course if the relationship is beyond repair, if I dont see myself with him and simply need to be out.. then I should be out.

There are somethings that the whole human population feels.. like anger, hurt, love .. and I think that every human also goes through these phases in all relationships. Not trying to generalize... it is already generalized!

G_I and rythm.....i love u...muuuuuuuuuuuaahhhhzzz

Dallu my sweetheart I miss you soo much. Where have you been hun? Whats going on with you?? I keep saying that I am going to come there but something comes up so I will hopefully see you sometime soon!!

hmmm I didn't know there is a thread like this...

DC_Girl spice up your life why dont you. Here are things you should do (one recommended, do all three at your own risk):

1. Have an affair. You will find out how much do you Really love him!
2. Have a threesome. Even better spice right there... Nice foryour monotonous relationship.
3. Poison him and if he survives he is yours. If he doesn't, he never was.

DAmnnnnn. I am speechless. whoa!!!! I like your point no 2. lollllll

hehehe

peace out

नेपाल मा मैले यत्ति धेरै च्वाँख नेपाली केटिहरु देखेको थिये, तर यो अमेरिका भन्ने ठाऊँमा त एउटा पनि च्वाँख केटि देख्दिन ?
के मेरो आँखा फुटेको छ कि के हो?

Wateva,
You go ahead and start a Training Academy on how to be a bitch.

Nepesahila,
ooooh good idea! Thanks... I am gonna write about that!

वाटेवर मैयाँ त मलाई अत्ती झगडालु लाग्यो! आइमाइ जात केटा हरु सित झगडा गर्नु हुन्न के, बुझेको हो मैँया साहिबले???

thugged out... I see you typed something, all I read is BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH.....
K bha hola kunni!

खोइ तिमिलाई कुखुरे बैश लाग्यो जस्तो छ। बुझेको हो वाटेबर नानि ले?

What if nothing has changed. His daily routine is same but spends most of his time online chatting and checking out other girl. Doesn't like to talk, doesn't even want to be touched, or hugged or kissed. Talks in a very rude, arrogant way. What would you do in that situation?

well, if the love is really "fading" awayy and you want him "hugging" someone else then what the hell you waiting for, you should stop thinking of him which you already did, eh? well yeah then just break up since you dont have feelings for him anymore :P goshh

"Well if the love is really "fading" awayy and you want him "hugging" someone else then what the hell you waiting for, you should stop thinking of him which you already did, eh? well yeah then just break up since you dont have feelings for him anymore :P goshh"

First of all I'm talking about myself. I don't want him hugging anyone else besides me. I never said I don't have feeling for him either. I love him more then ever and I want to be the one who he hugs and kisses not someone else. Kittycat you got me totally worng........

wateva,

You train as many bitches as you want. Makes no difference to me coz I already have Ph.d on how to cure bitch biting or to run faster than bitches. No one's gonna fall for any bitches and their actions will be determined in advance from now on.

I think u need a temporary "SPACE" .. that will answer so many of your questions. however, u need to know taht EVERYBODY .. i mean virtually everybody... goes through this phase..... one time or the another. HOWEVER .... this is just a pahse .. it passes.......i mean if it does tahn u r fine.. if not.. than here u go.. here is your answer too.. so it's all win-win situation.. u would have ur dilemma solved either way., just stay away from him for a while.
AT LEAST be thankful, he is just ur boyfren at this moment... not a HUSBAND that u r legally bound too.. or not your kid's father .. to make matter worse, when u can't even afford a space.:)
good luck. let m e know if this works ;)

यो किट्टिक्याट भन्ने केटी २० बर्ष भन्दा बढि छिन् जस्तो लागेन मलाई। बढि इस्माइली युज गर्ने मानिसहरु मलाई अत्ति बच्चा-बच्चा जस्तो लाग्दछ। साझामा अत्ति धेरै साझाबासीले इस्माइली टाइप गरेको देखछु। किट्टिक्याटको मनमा प्रेमको मात्र ध्याउन्न छ जस्तो लाग्यो। तिम्रो बिहे अहिलेनै गर्दिनु पर्ला जस्तोछ। म एउटा पण्डितजी चिन्छु, कुरा चलाउने हो भने मलाई भन, म तिम्रो बिहे पक्का गर्दिन्छु!!!!!
तर म धनि मान्छे परिन, तसर्थ मलाई अलिकत्त पैसा चाहिन्छ।।
ल है त मैंया, मलाई खबर छिट्टो गर, नत्र भये तिमीले चानस मा डानस गर्ने छौ।।।।।।