Suddenly, I am at the top of the world. I was a competely different person 2 min back. I think I am in love again. But the difference this time is her acknowledgement, or may be its just my misperception towards her great thinking. Thats why I am leaving it upto u guys. Does she love me??
She is from ktm and I am here in Chicago. I met her in chat 3 hrs back after a long long time and and we chatted for hours. When I had gone back last yr and the yr before that, we met and hung out. I guess we both knew we had something between us. I was more aggresive in letting her know about my feelings in a very indirect way. But, she took me as a fren, may be little more than a fren. But, today during our chat session she asked me if I had already found a special person and she wanted to see my pic .She aked me when i am getting perm residency stuff like that..........do these mean that she has same feelings towards me or am I just thinking too much.....whatever it is, one thing is for sure that its such a nice feeling. I am listening to love songs, luckily I had few of em in my laptop.....I feel like throwing my sweater like Amir khan did in Pehla Nasa...is there a place like that near Chicago metro??????

she asked if u gettin perm residence in us? then she's after u coz she's interested in comin to US, not in you! put that in ur brain! :D

Redstone, that was a bitter truth. :)

Back to Bullish. well you already answered your question just by asking if she loves you or not. So keep your sweater with yourself. :) But then again, I might be wrong.

You know you like him/her when:

he understands the odd things I do, even appreciates some of it.

he knows when Im pissed he just cant win, so he doesnt even try: .d

he keeps all my skeletons safe, my closet or his, they have a home

he is the best friend I have ever had. He really understands what a friend is supposed to be. To me thats one of the most important things in life.

OH YEAH!!!! he lets me bite him..and likes it: :D

he puts up with my varying moods: ;)

he's learned to be able to pick up a conversation from 3 days ago when I randomly start answering a question he asked me 3 days ago. :D

he kills flies and spiders for me. :D

he'll get out of bed and fetch me anything, without the deep sighing and bitching.

he doesn't get mad when I get mad at him for things he did in a dream. :D

he gets really cranky when he's hungry. I find this hilarious.

he lets me take care of him. No arrogance, just listening.

he squeals at cute furry baby animals. And comes to get me when he sees some outside.

he has more patience than anyone I've ever known, and reacts to adversity with humor rather than anger.

she knows or not knows how much he is missing her? :D

Your fate is already written - you never know what is ahead of you unless u take the risk of unknowing affects.

Ha ha....Funny...anyway good luck !!

Dude i dont know about Chicago metro but u could come on the bridge of Missippi river and throw your sweater from there and start singing the song. Or better yet, if u really want to get rid of them sweater give it to Salvation army, some homeless person might bless u ;)

Yo Bull...

I ain't no relationship expert however before you throw your nice sweater in the river I would suggest you to confirm if her feels for you are for real cause you might regret it when winter comes in Chicago. Next time when you chat again, tell her that you are never gonna get Perm. Residency and that you are planning to come back to Nepal to be with her for good. And see how she reacts to that. If she continues to be nice to you and still wants to be with you then you are right on the money. It is about your life..nothing wrong with making sure if she is a right person for you.
Good luck.

don't get too excited bullish, but it seems that she was only asking casual questions. I mean if you haven't seen a person you know for a long time, you want to take a look at their pic to see how they've become, and all other simple questions about how your life's going. Sorry to burst your bubble but it may not be what you think.

love is contagious at sajha..first you then sanjays and then so many others..carry on papitas..lol

WEll... Bullish normally our brain believes what we want it to believe,.... If we want it to think that someone is showing certain reactions because they are interested... the thats what it is!! and if you start thinking about it in the other way... t hen the perception of all the actions by the other individual changes.

Somehow the way you think the other person behaves depends directly upon what YOU want to believe. SO the best way of finding out is confronting her and asking her directly what her intentions are.. AND BINGO!!!

Bullish,

I know it's a really nice feeling to be in love especially the first few months. But you have to check out the reality too coz I have seen a lot of people girls or boys who have pretended to be madly in love just so they can come to US and after they get their GC then they'll dump you like hot coal. Or even if they do stay with u, then since there is no love from her side to begin with, so u'll have a terrible loveless married life.
So if you really want to find out if this girl is for real then tell her that u miss ur parents and u miss nepal so u are planning to come back to nepal. and see how she reacts to this. then u'll know if this girl really loves u for u or just ur GC.