Two friends were walking
through the desert. During some
point of the journey they had an argument, and
one friend slapped the other one in the face.

The one who got slapped was hurt,
but without saying anything, wrote in the sand:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.

They kept on walking until they found an oasis,
where they decided to take a bath. The one who
had been slapped got stuck in the mire and
started drowning, but the friend saved him.
After he recovered from the near
drowning, he wrote on a stone:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.

The friend who had slapped and
saved his best friend asked him,
"After I hurt you, ! you wrote in the
sand and now !, you write on a stone,
why?" The other friend replied "When someone
hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds
of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone
does something good for us, we must engrave
it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."

LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND
AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE.

They say , it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them,
but then an entire life to forget them.

Do not value the THINGS you have in your life..
But value WHO you have in your life !!!

hehe BHANGLI DAMINI ji!
ke bhanu i don't know so thank you.

Simple vs Real

Anyone can stand by you when you are right, but a Friend will stand by you even when you are wrong...

A simple friend identifies himself when he calls. A real friend doesn't have to.

A simple friend opens a conversation with a full news bulletin on his life. A real friend says, "What's new with you?"

A simple friend has never seen you cry. A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names. A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed. A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems. A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest. A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument. A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them. A real friend expects to always be there for you!

Ardent, you are my real friend !!!

Sad but true....I don't have "real friend" as Sristi baini would describe....
Ma ta aafno saathi aafai..:)
Nirman

Vhancha maniss moore pachi..
Tara banchan re.
Khooju kaha timi lai
Aakash ma chan haazar...
Maile timi lai na chinne pani
Timi le malai, dekhda chau hola
Muskurai rahnu timi,Jaha vhaye pani
Yeahi ma vhanna cahanchu..
Dukkhi na hunu timi Kahileai
Aankha ma aasu mero dekhera,
Birsu kasari timi lai ?
Sahara timi nai theyauu mero
Harayeko thiyea jabama,sunyata ma
Gayau kaha Achaanak Yesari
Ekanta ma pani,malai eklo paarii

Vhanna ma cahanchu ,maatra yeti...
Ki ...............
Tada timi ma dekhi vhaye pani
Saddhai vhari mutu ma mero rahnechau...
Saddhai Ko mitra hami...
Saddhavi vhari rahne chau...
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Actually This one I wrote in Hindi, nepali ma lekhda ali na mile jasto cha ni
:-)

In this selfish world
Its hard to find a true friend
There is everyone in happiness
But they wont be there to cry in your pain
Everybody acts like they love you like no one
But you wont find them when happy days are gone
Every time you think that this friendship is strong
And everytime you are wrong
When you will seek them they wont be around
Every one will listen,when you sing in joy
But nobody cares when you sing a sad song
Thats why my friend someone has said :-----
" When you will laugh the world will laugh with
you,
And when you will cry its only you. ".

Nirman Da, sometimes it is good to be friend of oneself. But i wish you would get one true friend in future.

ejuram jyu, Poem ramro chha nepali ma. I agree with you that in this selfish world it is hard to find a true friend but it is not impossible!!

A friend in need is a nuisance indeed!
A friend in need is no friend of mine.

A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift,
A friend is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.

somebody once a told me
'friens 3 type ko hunchha
1. hi
2.hello
3.chalo
1> hi= baato ma bhetda khaali hi!matra bhanchh ra aafno baato lagchha.
2>hello=baato ma bhetda hello!ke chha bhanera haalkhabar sodhchha sukh-dukh ko kura garchha ra feri bhetaula hai bhandai aafno baato lagchha.
3>chalo= baato ma bhetda hi,hello,bhaisakepachhi sukh-dukh ko kurakaani garepachhi kehi problem chha ? bhanera sodhchha ani saathilai jasto sukai problem bhaye pani jaha sukai jaanu pare pani pachhi hatdaina ra chalo bhanera saathi sangai hidchha'.

tell me guys my that friend was right ?

raayann

ejuram jyu and EjuraM jyu..are u same person? :) both have some good thoughts on friendship.

raayann jyu, i think your friend was right.

EjuraM is ejuram, ejuram is AjaY & AjaY is Me
So is DreamZ_Unlimited & John_S

" ME"

If you see me..
I'm all skin
I have a nose, I have hair, I have eyes
and ears,
and fingers,
and toes,
Just like you...

If you look in deeper
I have a chest,
I have a rib cage,
a liver,
a pair of lungs,
a pancreas,
an intestine,
Just like you..

If you look in even deeper
you'll see that I have a nervous system,
a circulatory system..
I have arteries and veins,
I have bones,
Just like you..

And I advise you to look in even deeper
that's where lies my heart
that's where lies the person that I am
and that's what truly counts.

:-)

Ajay jyu...nice description of urself :)

first--sarcasm fills the air
striking remarks then follows.
small grins, dubious eyebrows,
oh--let the arguments begin!
time passes by...
only acquiring the habit we have begun.
though the longer the mockery is,
the harder it is revealing each other's identity.
...ironically--my only goal is to uncover the real "you."
unfortunately, there's just too many sarcasm,
and barely little of the real us...
I asked if we could change it,
you said "yes--we can."
deciding that nature will take its place
we set aside our worries and proceed with life.
while in our minds,
there's still a boundary keeping us apart.
will our friendship ever be at ease?
...in my mind
I hope
I pray.

***********
from someone for someone :)

Sristhi is that ur real name ?
It sounds so nice :-)

EjuraM jyu, yes Sristi is my real name. Thank you for the compliments. But check the spelling of the name...delete that 'h'

oops sorryyyyyyy 4 that :-)

Sorry hai sristi Ji Hajur ko naam ma auta "h" thappiyera hajur badlivhayena Hola Vhanni aasha Gardachu.........

Naam ma K cha ?
Naam ta J pani huna sakcha
Jo mero naam ho, Tyo ma hoina
Sabbai le malai Ajay vhandachan
Malai lagcha...
Naam ta kewal chaala * Skin* ko matra ho
Ho vaastavma maanis le malai
Kewal auta chala ko roop ma chindachan
Ma bhitra ko mero hriday
Jo ma ho, jo mero astitva ho
Choopeka chan maalai
Ma bhitra Ko sundarta lai
Auta naam Diyera
Malai tha cha, malai chinne koi chaina
Kewal mero chaala lai chinda chan

.

Lol EjuraM jyu

As I got up this morning and
jumped out of my bed
A really warm and fuzzy thought
just popped into my head
I went to my computer and clicked upon your name
No matter what my day is like, Your friendships just the same.
You prop me up when
I feel down
You never, ever
make me frown
So I am here a
hug to send
To You, my dear
Forever friend (Ardent)!