So finally he deleted me from
Facebook (FB). After 2 years long relationship and many fights over
whether we should be FB friends or not; last year I had added him and today, he
deleted me.
Let me take you to the flashback of
the whole story. The first time we argued was when, over a cup of coffee, I
mentioned how people liked my profile picture and complimented me. With a hard
grumpy face he asked me why I never added him on FB? Is there anything that he
shouldn’t know about me?
My funda is
very simple. I meet you almost every day, I talk to you everyday over phone,
skype, yahoo. I text you every single hour and you are the first person to know
if anything happens in my life so now tell me why do we need to be on facebook?And this argument continued until I
finally added him on my FB. Now the real game started from that moment. For
once I thought the entire argument will be over once we are so called “FB
Friends” but to my dejection it was just the tip of an iceberg.
The very next early morning I get a
call from him. Looking at his name blinking on my phone, I felt so good. “OMG!
He wants to wake me up and kiss me good morning” was the thought that flashed
through my mind. In a very pretentious lazy, sultry voice when I said Hello!...
trust me, I felt I just landed at Pearl Harbor when it was attacked and
bombarded. The story behind his anger was why some guy was flirting with me on
one of my picture and I was replying back. And more over why he is NOT friends
on his FB. So here I was in my bed, explaining to him that its just FB and
people are like that there. Now the argument went worse, “you are never like
that with me”. And I think I lost it then and there…..my patience.
SO the squabble continued for a
year, over my profile picture, my friends on facebook, my comments, my status
and of course my liking of someone else’s picture. I never understood why was
it so important for him when in real life he was my world. I asked couple of my
friends and they had similar issues but not so chronic.
Today, out of nowhere he deleted me
from his FB with a message:-
This is affecting our relationship.
Argument over FB is very trivial, I have understood. I know we don’t need to be
on FB to flaunt that we love each other. We don’t need to tag ourselves in
pictures to show that we stick together no matter what and I hate guys flirting
with you on FB. So till I can handle it, I decided we will stay real and off
virtual. I love you.
I really don’t know if I should be
Happy? Scared? Or Worried with this decision but one thing is for sure…. Fromtomorrow I
will not get morning calls with an annoyed voice about a profile picture
comment.
