hiya folks,
Just a question to all married ppl in sajha. Were you guys had that feeling of fear of whatever you call.....commitment or future of yours? I am going through same feeling now. Its not that i dont want to get married. I love her and getting married on 18th of Feb...........There is all the excitment and sincerity is on the way.
One thing is bugging me a lot, is cant believe i am getting married. I am really scared now and cant sleep. The feeling of marriage just goes on my head...what about my life? what about the future? How it will turn up? will i have my personal space.
I really love this gal and i choose her up. It started off with the arrange things but Now it has turned into love in span of time. She is all, i want but just that fear within me is terrible.

Is this normal guys?
Help me out...........

mm bro u actually made my job a lot easier!!hehe..well anyways congrats from me :oD..me no experience on such things called marriage so guess i cant really say much(tho i still will most prob will end up sayn more than most?hah ;oP hehe)

i guess we do feel fear cos of uncertainty(which u mentioned)..esp if we do care about it..so its all a natural reaction and in ur case this shows how much all this(she) means to u ;o) hehe..so its all good?i mean if we know(seen from some old post ;oP hehe) u aint the type to marry for the sake of marryn hoina?

darn how i wish i was in nepal right now..i still havent been to a nepali wedding(its still an unfulfilled wish and hopefully it will come true one day..and def not wishing to attend as a groom hai ;oP..tho i do dream of quite some absurd things..i def dun and have not dared dream of such a thing hai hehe) and i just have these good vibes that ur bihe will be lots of fun ;o) hehe..well with u as a groom will u let that happen?no way hoina?hehe..

anyways congrats again..and cheers to ur future and the step ur takin :oD...and def lookin foward to seeing wat u share in ramjham next time ;o) hehe....

and oh nice seeing u back here again :oD

good day!:oD

Congrats dude, Wish you all the best.

MM,
Congrats for going to get married!!!

Hoping to see your wedding pics soon.

PANCHE BAJA chahi nabirsinu hai, subha bibaha.

डर त लाग्छ नि होउ , मेरो case मा चै मेरी बेहुली म भन्दा अलि निकै खानदानी म चै धेरै गरिब , घर नि पुरानो , बिहे गरे पछि दुख पाउछे म संग खुसि हुन्न कि भन्ने डर लाग्ने . हामी प्राय मकै कोदो खाने दुलही सदै धानको भात खाने औकात कि , long टर्म मा कुरो मिल्दैन कि हान्ने सधै डर लाग्ने . ससुराली मा टिका लाउन = जादा नि आफ्नो कपडा मा धुवा गनाको गणको छ कि जस्तो हुने , दुलही का आफन्ती को घर बार हेर्दा आफु छक्क पर्ने , तर बिहे पछि चै मेरी दुलही ले take it easy गरिन . तेस्पछि भाग्य ले अम्रिका तिर पठायो अनि सबै ठिक भयो

हैन हौ टिपनटापन ब्रो लाई के भाको छ , यो धागो श्रीजना गर्नेको छोरा छोरीको मुतुनो चल्न थाली सक्यो खोजी खोजी ब्युत्याउछ्यौ , कि सम्धी हुने बिचार हो ? धन्न ब्रोले तिम्रो बुढीको मुतौरो टाइट छ कि छैन सोधाई सँगै ब्यापार बन्दोबस्त बारे लेखेनछौ ? ब्रो देलिभरिको बेला सङै हुँदा बच्चा आउन बुढीको मुजी तन्किएको देखेर मुर्छा परेका तपाईंनै हुनु पर्छ, कोम्प्लिकेसन को कारण सि-सेक्सन हुनाले टाइटनै रहने भयो भनी दाङदास पर्नु भएको छ , अलिक पछी मुज्जिएको मुजी देखे पछी मुर्छा होईन माथिनै पुग्नु होला, यो पढे पछी तपाईं मुर्छा बाट ब्युतिनु हुनेछ (head up for you)

आज भोली हामी सबै भाते भन्दा ढिडे बन्नु परेको छ , बानी पार्न अलिक गाह्रो भएको छ , ब्रो लाई चै गाह्रो नहोला |

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