हिन्दी फिल्म मा भने को छ एउटा :

k ho guru nikkai chot parya jasto cha ni? hamro desh ma samudra chaina bhanne birsau ki kya ho? samudri jahaj chadera chai aba timi kun chai Nepal pugchau malai thaha bhayena baru .timro paiso firta lina lai bhane chai aba timi le timro card bata tireko hau bhane frita aaula bhanna sakincha, natra k ko adhar ma timro paisa bhanera bhanchau praman chaiyo ni? kuro gari hera tyo keti sanga k bhanche ani thaha huncha

feri arko dhokaa? hetteri .....

घुमाउन मात्रै सकेनौ हैन होला मित्र, उस्लाई चहिने क्यात तिलक्लम--झ्यामा झ्यामा, नपुगेपची त खोज्नेनै भयो नि। अब दुबइ जनलाई cloroform खुवाइ अनी  केतोको BALL निकलेर केटीko कन्मा झुन्द्यैदेउ अनी  यूरोप को समुद्री सफर्मा निस्क।

its a common thing here in the US that girls live with their bfs and bfs pay their college fee and majority of their expenses. in return bfs also get to sleep with them. i have seen in many cases that girls stay with their bf until they get through college or find a decent job and then they cheat/break up and go marry with someone who is well settled.

its almost impossible to get your money back since the transaction has been cleared and there is a time frame in which you have to dispute charges if you had used card. on the other hand, if you can prove with evidence that you paid for her, you can take her to small claims court. the best thing to do would be to ask her the money back nicely and threaten her to take her to the court after that.

even if you cant get the money back, dont be upset since you hopefully got a lot of sex out of the relationship.

sad story; though not a unique one! I know a beautiful nepali girl (now a lady), who changed boyfriend when she joined another college for Masters degree. Once she completed her education - she married third guy who; of course, was well settled.  She currently lives a "successful" career and family life. Obviously, she did not spend a penny for her education in USA. This case really amazed me !

Moral - Fall in love, but dont make investment into it ;).

 के गर्नु सुरुमा नै बुद्धी पुर्यएको भए कम्तिमा अहिले मेरो ब्यान्कमा ३०,००० हुने थियो । अब ठिकै छ, भग्वानले देख्चन होला । फेरी सेक्सको लागी मात्र थिएन यो समबन्ध । कुमारइत्व नै सुम्पिदिएको थिए ।
भुत्रो जस्तो परिवारलाई पो क भन्ने अब ?

The wisest course of action is move on, and  forget for such a b**ch. In this world nothing is farther from the truth. And truth is the power. You better move on to a better life. Find someone far better than this whore. You know she is not going to be with this your so-called friend for long. She is goind to end up in a whore-house, broken, slut. Good luck! my friend. Move on.

 धन्यबाद खुम्ले सान्त्वनको लागि, तर यो माया भन्ने चिज पो कस्तो हुदो रैछ । त्यत्रो धोका हुँदा नि मलाई उप्रती घृना छैन, मात्र रिस उठिरा छ । त्यो केटो मात्र हो जो प्रती मलाई घृना छ ।

 well, guys, sorry to hear this story, but u are completely blaming girls for that, who knows keta haru le pani kati keti lai thageko huna sakcha.. (u never know)...

anyways, thank god mero kunai pani sathi lai yesto bhako chaina.. both bf and gf,  afno kharcha afai uthauchhan :) .. atleast mero case ma ta testai cha... i bear my own expenses and he does his..we are not financially dependent on each other ...

tesaile kasailai pani financially dependent nabaunu ra afai pani nahunu 


@fokatiya... even if you go and ask her i don't think she would return your money..but try gardai ma ke bigranchha ra... all the best..
hope this does not happen  to anyone else...

I have never been in your shoes,God Forbid! but i can only imagine what you've been through. Hurting the dude wont help but i assume being his friend it would be easy for you to find out what his weaknesses are. You might even already know. Example may be: his unauthorized Employment.

Love hurts and that dude should not have banged your girl knowing the fact that she is your girlfriend. So, go ahead and report his unauthorized employment (if you know of) to the authority. This would teach the dude a big lesson and you can be happy.
Forget the Bi(ch. She does not deserve you.

I hope god gives you strength to move on bro. What goes around comes around for them. May be its a disguise in blessing for you to find a better person in your life. Just don't do anything stupid with your anger. Just let it go, you will be alright bro.

 त्यै भएर आफैले कहिल्यै प्रेम गर्नु हुदैन ,पैला को बाट सुरु भाको नि ?अहिले को जमाना मा त येस्तै रहेछ ,,जे भए नि नेपाली त्यस्तो हुनु चाहिं नपर्ने !पैसा माग्न पनि अप्ठ्यारो त अप्ठारो हुन्छ ,त्यति सम्म सहयोग र माया गर्दा पनि केटि अरु संग ? त्यो केटा ले थाहा भै भै गरेपनि केटि ले किन नमानेको ,उल्टो अस्विकार गर्नु पर्ने नि ,त्यसले केइ जाल बुनेको हुनै पर्छ  नत्र चार वर्ष सम्म चलेको प्रेम कसरि त्यस्तो हुन सक्छ !खै अब जिन्दगि येस्तै हो भनेर भगवान लै सम्झने!सबै कुरा बिर्सनु बिहे गर्नु अनि आनन्दले बस्ने !!

चर्केको माया जोडिदिने फेरी बस्तुनै के छ र ,
मनमा रह्यो बिरह बेथा भन्नु नै के छ र !!!

त्यो दैनिक माया गरेको को मुल्य चाँही कति नि ?

गाउमा एस्तै कुरा को प्रसँग ल्याउनु पर्ने भयो ।

डल्ली ले सानेलाई छोडेर बिर्खे सँग पोइला गै छ , पञ्च न्याय मा हर्जाना को माग गर्‍यो सानेले .
पञ्चले सोधे किन छोडिस त त्यो सानेलाई ? खाइ लाद्गो छ , घर जाम पनि त्यो बिर्खे भन्दा राम्रै
खान लाउने हो ?

डल्लीले कपाल कन्यादै भुई तिर आँखा दौडाउदै भनी , त्यो त ठिकै हो पञ्च बा ,
मुसलको काम खल्बच्चाले नगर्ने भएरै हो त्यो बिर्खे सँग लागेको .

कही ब्रो को कथा एस्तै एस्तै त है न ?

bhojpure bro

kasto mula ghumayera lekheko........testo "thet" nepali sabda haru dherai lai taha hudaina...yeso sabaile janne bujne bhasa ma lekhne garau na....ani po padhna pani majja aauchha

don't worry dude. life is sometimes about facing the unfair world.
my former boss always said: the world is unfair! he had faced the unsurmountable in accomplishing even the simplest of things.
and i always thought: but it's also a wheel and the cogs will change positions sonner than later.
justin timberlake took the same idea a step further: what goes around comes around!

my advice: don't intend ill of others no matter how much you might want (when angry) to harm them both. whenever you start foaming on the mouth raging with anger and thinking about the unfariness thrusted on you, think those lines i wrote above. these lines have taken me far and am sure it will do good to you too.

yes, it hurts like hell, but your intention when you helped her was good. and it will do a lot of good to your heart and soul later in life - that you did not intend ill of them even at this time. deep inside, it will help you to hold your head high!

strive harder to try and treat this episode like a page from the past. forget this situation and move on to your next chapter in life. time only can heal the wound, but it will be worthwhile. you know what: that gal wasn't for you, cos with all that love you showered on her, you deserve BETTER. Nature saw it and is trying to do some justice to you, sooner than later. but don't forget to thank the friend who told you the affair. he is a real friend. such friends are few and far between.

look at it this way. say, she was with you till next year, a month before your proposed wedding date. you would have been another 10,000 dollars poorer as you would have paid her tuition for 2 semesters, at least! cos she did NOW what she would have done timorrow, you are already a step closer towards where you should have been in the first place.

irrespective of how she will do in life (wish for her goodness still - no matter how hard it is) and this good energy will do wonders for yourself. negative energy brings in bad things - don't embrace bad thoughts at all. frustration will take over -- but read my four lines above.

good luck my friend. and good luck to the two of you there in this love triangle, secretely reading this post, guilty and sick for ripping someone's life to shreds. i wonder what her heart is made out of as i cannot even begin to fathom the filth with which it is filled with. but we are only mortals, and make mistakes. but good thoughts, my friend, good thoughts! that will take you very far in life.

peace unto you!

 
भोजपुरे जि, 

Fokatiya bro, j hos naya huney wala srimati lai "chahiney bhanda badi tel" ra "gadi ko grease" ko barema bhaney nabhnnu la ;).  Timro naya josh dekhi nikai khusi lagyo. Good luck!

Fokatia,



नेपाल गएर बिहा गर्नुस् तर त्यो केटी लाई देखआउने कारणले होइन की नयाँ केटीको कअरनले बिहा गर्नुस्।

एस्तो केटा ले केटीलाई ठगेको र केटी ले केटालाई ठगेको काहानी हरु तन्नै सुन्नमा आउन्छ। पैसाले माया किन्न सकिन्न, तर हामी नेपाली को कल्चर ले गअर्दा हो कि कुन्नी हामी पैसा ले माया बसैन्छ भन थन्छौ।

हामी कलेज हुँदा को कुरो हाम्रो एउत केटी साथी लाई एउत मोर ले तिस हजार जती क्रेडिट कार्डमा बोकएर छोडि दियो। हामी ले केटी साथी लाई पैसा ले माया आउन्दैन भनेर कत्ती सम्झौने गर्थिउन तर उनिले सुनिनन। माया अन्धो थियो शायद उन्को पनि।

I hope you find another nice lady for the lady she is and not for the reason you want to teach the old biaatch a lesson.