मलाई मात्र हो कि अरुलाई पनि यस्तै प्रब्लेम छ ? मित्रहरु प्लिज शेयर गर्नुस्....
क्रेडिट कार्ड मा कती तिर्ने ? वाक्क भइसके ।।।अब ग्र्याजुएट त छिट्टै हुँदै छु तर पनि काम पाउन एस्तो गाह्रो छ यो देश मा।।।कसरी बच्ने होला ?
सधैं एसरी नै फ्रस्ट्रेटेड भएर कती बस्ने । नेपाल मा फेमिली पनि मिस गर्छु। बा आमा लाई सम्झिन्छु, दाजु भाई बहिनी लाई सम्झिन्छु बेला बेला मा अनी भक्कानो फुटेर आउछ अनी रुन्छु रातभरी ।
बा आमा को पनि अब उमेर धेरै हुन लगिसक्यो, कसरी एक्लै बस्दै होलान ? मैले आफुले कमाएर अहिले सम्म दिन सकेको छैन । छ बर्ष पुग्न थाल्यो अमेरिका आएको पनि । एस्तो कुरा दिमाग मा खेलिरहन्छ अनी पढ्ने कसरी ?? बेर्थ अमेरिका आएछु जस्तो लाग्छ आज्कल । थोरै कमाये पनि मान्छे हरु खुशी छन नेपाल मा , आफ्नो परिवार सँग हासी खुशी बसी राखेका छन जे होस् । मान्छे हरु किन आत्महत्या गर्छन् जस्तो लग्थियो पहिले, अहिले लाग्छ शायद यस्तै यस्तै भएर होला । म मर्न पनि चाहन्न , आमा बा लाई हेर्नु पनि छ, बिचरा बुढा आमा बा ले हुर्कायी पढाये, उनिहरु लाई मैले केही गर्नु छ । जिन्दगी ले मलाई किन एस्तो गर्‍यो ? 

I am really Frustrated with my Life right now...

Please share with me your feelings/problems so that i feel little relaxed.

same here same feelings i can't believe, we should contact each other and be friends. yestai ho malai pani kaile kahai padai sadai chodera paisa kamau lagcha pheri American life jeuna man lagcha, family lai phone nagareko pani 1 year huna lai sakyo, i used to blame them all the time for my sorrows. bhai lai gali garthe america aauchu bhanda aauna pani diyen maile, humiliate huncha heramexican kale gore ani dhoti haru ko nokor hunuparcha bahnera j hos bhaile bachelor sakayo computer science ma khusi lagyo, ma aajai padddai chu, i have so many issues, hatred, anxieties, depression, frustration so u know.................

Euta major decision linne palo aheko cha timi haru ko...ki nepal janchu bhannu paryo ki ganganauna chodnu paryo...ek baar ko jindagi ho euta decision lee, regret nahunne parale liyee ..Great saying, Major decision are always tough to make...ja na nepal mai gayera kehi gar...instead of ganaunaa...

it's not shameful to go to Nepal. it's not the last option , rather it should be the first option. it's not a loss to go back to your country. no body will look you down. people will admire you and appreciate you. no matter what Nepali people are nicer compare to these goreys here who always think you're here to steal. you don't have to think about papers. You will, trust me You will find a job. how many people do you know in Nepal who are unemployed and how many do you know in the usa? whatever, we Nepali people who can come to USA in student visa, meaning paying tution , air fares etc are the high class in Nepali sociecty. we can enjoy all those things we have been deprived for since we they freaking printed the F(fu.....cked up) 1 on your visa.. don't be a slave of irrerational fear...

go to Nepal, get your life again, get a job, dont fool around like before.. do well. do your best be with your family.. when you get sleep and when your stress goes away your sex drive improves, you will get your glow back.. then fall in love, marry, make babies.. go with the flow.. raise your kids, be a human..

bottom line: would you wanna be a chicken in a golden cage, or would you like to be a human in Nepal.. it's your choice...just think again, what did you get in 6 years.. what's the gurantee things will be better in next 6 years, if you go thorough h1b route, and that is if you're extermly lucky and talented at the same time.. and that is when you're in your early 30s... at that point where will you be.. no where, you probably going to have few assets like a couple of cars and a house but the truth is you'll have more debt too and you will be working harder than before and getting no where at the same time..

this is your time, think wise.. now a days lots of Nepalis return from Nepal.. ask them, how they are doing.. most of them are happy in Nepal after few months.. yes, hot water, nice highways, cheap gas , cheap food etc are luxuary in the first world country but that does not mean you can live you life just for those things.. humans have other neccasities in life besides such pity privillages..

 

नेपालमा हुँदा बाउको लज आमाको होटेल हुन्थ्यो, ( सबैलाई लागु नहोला ) त्यो हुँदैन .

घर छोडे पछी , दाइत्व माथि दाइत्व थपिदै जान्छ , बिल कसरी तिर्ने , होम वर्क सिध्याउने, ग्रेड राम्रो ल्याउने , काम पनि गर्ने आदी इत्यादी को भार काधमा आए पछी कसरी खुशी हुनु ?

A part of it is that human being are never satisfied regardless of what they get. The only reason you came to USA is that you were sad of being at Nepal at that time and wanted to come US next day.

Do you accpet this truth?

ghar jau ma ta [Disallowed String for - bad words]..kasale rokeko chha ra..afai jbarjasti basnu chha...ani dhukhi bhaya re.!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111

Racheeta jee.. sabai lai ustai ho.. tara koi koi lukayera bhandainan, maan manai runchan, karauchan. tara thapai hami afno maan ko kura sathi bhai lai bhanchou, yo nai ramro kura ho ne hoina ra..

yestai bhayeko le ma coming february  ma sadai ko lagi america lai bye bye garera jadai chhu...

hi dear every where is same life dont do any thing plz let see i am also in CA last 5 year n i do every day job but just i get one thing for my life in here that my wone place to lev work so plz try to do same as every one that for your com....bye take your self

Nepalese community is segregated. We try to fit in here in USA, but at some point in life, we go back to our home country because that's where we are respected and counted. So, here is my suggestion, if you decide to stay in USA, try to be integrated. Black community integrate themselves with white people. Unlike Asians, who are confined within their own circle and culture. Have a positive mindset and stop thinking like a racist. I am sure you will start seeing life in USA.

My love, I can feel your pain 'cause I was on the same boat couple years ago.

BUT, yes But..Look at this our Universe. Sun is the biggest source of the energy and provides life to the Earth. But the Sun couldn't provide light all the time to the Earth. And Earth has to go through the DARK phase. BUT, in that Earth's Dark Phase, all the ANIMALS AND PLANTS they Don't get  FRUSTRATE, they just keep quite and stay still. They Know Darkness is in between Earth and Sun but not Among them. So Animals don't complain to each other. And next day they are bless with brightness again.

"THE ENERGY" already pulled you out of the Nepal. If you keep complaining among us, 'THE ENERGY' will say, its between you and me, and you could have waited little bit, I am already on my way, Why you have to go out and complain with BAND BAJA....  So, "THE ENERGY' wants you to stay still and keep your trust on "IT".

good luck.

Came here 4 years ago. Worked the shit out. Days in days out studied hard maintained 3.5 GPA. Choosed the major of interest and at the time I am about to graduate won Dv lottery. What else can I ask for. I stopped complaining about life long time ago when was nearly killed at the gasstation. Take the life as it comes. You got to shape it yourself.

Hi guys,
Well, here is my short story, I came here 5 years ago too, start it as a freshman in bachelor's in business leaving everything the 3rd year bbs in Nepal. Still habn't graduated, (hopefully) next semester. I am on average grade. and working as always in small store. I have no idea whats my future plan is. Feels like, I am just traveling in a boat which is operated by the flow of air, wherever it takes i'm going.
Since now the graduation time is approaching, I am feeling like I don't have any skills in my hand nor on my mind. I am feeling like I should have join some graphics design program which is feels like my  real interest is on, which i spent most of my time beside my major study. Its not that I have no idea on Management, which I have studied so far, but I have no confidence on finding the job, scare with future after graduation. I am thinking will my life be spoiled in gas stations?. I wish to get rid of it, but no matter what i think i guess Im sticking with it. Sounds childish, but i wonder will my life be just depended on this gas station after my study too.

Need some suggestions guys!

Without scholarship, life is hell for students. That is why I told all my brothers and sisters not to come here without getting scholarship. So non of my family members are here except me. They all are happy back in Nepal, got settled, have  Rs30k - 50k a month job. As I got scholarship so I came here:). It was not that hard to get a job around 2006. So working since 2006. Never applied for GC. Still in H1. Planning to go back in next two years to Nepal and work there.

if u really have an honest intention of returning to nepal and u cant afford the ticekts then I hope we can arrange something in sajha, that will help u buy a ticket to go back home, as a matter of fact i would rather be happy to pay for a live person returning home than a  dead body in coffin, and if its just a mere frustration , then stop acting like a whiny kid, it was your decision to pursue american dreams, and defend your decision, nothing comes granted for anyone, there are thousands of others who might have gone thro worse situations ,and would rather tackle it happily than cry like loser  here in front of us .

Ya, i m defnitely tired of all these hypocrites who would do anything to stay here in US, and still whine about the things they miss in nepal and blah blah ..

Nobody will stop u at the airport to leave US for Nepal, even if you are in an expired visa

 

Please don't create this kind of stupid thread!!!!!!! Its your life and you can go back to Nepal if you really miss Nepal so much. WTF !!!.. Racheta, timi jata janchau tehi dukhi huncha...Bholi parsi nepal maa gayera timro sajha thread yesto huncha 

Welcome to USA. Let's face the real life drama this is how we feel while dealing with own responsibility ( back home we were less responsible ).

everyday i wish i would die, can't return to Nepal, people will think that I am a loser, if i return als what i would be doing, hanging out with bunch of gajadis, play soccer and act like stary dog sitting all day infront of some shop or street or join Milan Gurung's gang?

everyday i wish i would die, can't return to Nepal, people will think that I am a loser, if i return also what i would be doing, hanging out with bunch of gajadis, play soccer and act like stray dog sitting all day infront of some shop or street or join Milan Gurung's gang?

everyday i wish i would die, can't return to Nepal, people will think that I am a loser, if i return als what i would be doing, hanging out with bunch of gajadis, play soccer and act like stary dog sitting all day infront of some shop or street or join Milan Gurung's gang?