...he loves her. Can't live without her.

But

...does not remember her birthday.
...he imagines how her friend (girl) would act in bed.
...he is attracted to her friend in one way or the other.

She appreciates his honesty but she wonders does he really love her? Why can't he completely focus on what he has at the moment ie. his gf? Is this men-hypocrisy-syndrome? Is it that they can't help hanging around to explore other possible opportunities available even when they have good, honest and faithful gfs? When will they be satisfied...when?

does he rember his own?
..he just imagine how your friend acts in bed thank him that he did not act in real.
..well you did not get the clue still?

I have the clue. He loves me. It's just that MEN hormone thing which you cannot do anything about. Besides he is not that mature and that is the major problem I think. He still loves to play hide and seek with kids. He actually does whenever he gets a chance. MEN are MEN and KIDS are KIDS. Nothing can be done about these two.

Mind you, this is not my personal problem but a very generic one. Seen lots like these happening around. I think people here in sajha can relate to it.

Well, for this type of guys, they need girls who are into open relationship. The guy can sleep with whoever he wants and the girl can sleep with whoever she wants..and they can still be bf/gf despite this. Problem solved hoina? They love each other and can be together, and at the same time have fun with others. Ta da!

All i can say is kamakshi must be with many guys and she seems to be very experienced or else nobody can generalize people.

bidhan, U stupid low mental nepali. That statement was uncalled for. U don't have to be with guys/girls to generalize them. U can also generalize them based on ur opinion of what you see or hear.

what do you mean by "STUPID LOW MENTAL NEPALI" ?

Why you have to drag Nepali here. when kamakshi says things like he imagines how her friend (girl) would act in bed what should we say what should we infer? And by the way kamakshi (Kaam + izzha ) name itself means longing for a bed .why would any girl chose such name and then put allegation on guys. I would say phool ko ankha ma phoolai sansar.

Kamakshi god gave us power of imagination. Nothing wrong with using it. I'm sure everyone has at some point imagined doing it with someone else. Beats the monotony without causing much harm :-p

Well kamakshi if you generalize that way then any decent guy will take it as offence.

Kamakshi,
Your HE has so many things in common with me.
Well, lemme make my few points here.
He does not remember your birthday.What's the fuss? It only proves that you share so much of informality that he does not have to be under pressure always to remember each and every date. The bottomline is love, the date does not matter, at least for me. I often tend to forget the birthdays of my loved ones. And mind you, these days you don't need to remember anything, just fix some reminder somewhere and it notifies you. So what's the big deal. Be happy girl that you are not with smart man who loves to fake things.At least he tries to be himself with you.

Wow, you should be proud that he is so honest with you and you guys share such a level of comfort that he tells you about his wildest fantasies and stuffs. It is very rare in many relationships.

Now the last thing, Attraction is everywhere. Even interaction is one form of attraction. You hardly interact with people you are not attracted with.But it depends in which level. It does not mean that because HE is with you he should shut his eyes to to the girls.What do you want, girl? Grow up. And if you cannot then go ahead and dump HIM. You are simply wasting time with HIM.

I have followed quite a bit of your postings....U seem to be a sick bit(h.
postings on Neplese men have.....,using vulgarism during se..., visa question,marriage question......looks like you have had no option in life went bouncing from neplese emn to european and so on and so forth...u know why I said european..right???
U seem to be sleeping with more than one race(just not person) and now u r bitchinf about someone forgetting your b'day....
email me I will give you a pet care center's number because people like u belong there....

Why are you guys treating it as if it's only MY problem. I am just initiating a discussion to know what you think about this scene. I have found it happening with my friends, their friends and their friends.//. It's a common problem with men and some women.

My question to you MEN and to women: How many of you fancy spending nights with other girls ? Be honest. I want to listen it from married and committed men and women. I am not just saying MEN are MEN out of blue. I have seen plenty of men. Heard, seen and read about relationships. It's all in their hormones. You cannot do anything about it. I am not saying all women are totally different but most women are more honest to commitments than men.

BrianLara : You betta go play with your bat in the carribean. Shut your mouth when you have no clue about a person you are talking about. Same to you Bidhan.

men and some women re......do u have stats????or is it just one of your ideal time thought.
But i bet u have seen plenty on men...and plenty of things in them.

hahahaha

Kamakshi,
Meet chundi Ramgha.
Chudi, meet Kamakshi.Chudi's story: http://www.sajha.com/sajha/html/openThread.cfm?forum=2&ThreadID=43594

hheheh pupiffy nice one.

ha ha ha funny..
did you gusy meet each other? kamakshi and chudi :-)

lol
nice one pupiffy tara Kamakshi might need a 40oz heinekin bottle. Yeka tira bata khane...arko tira chiraune.....lol

Oye, lots of guys post up threads about girls, so whats wrong when a girl puts up one about a guy?