What would you do when a girl ask you for a date/relationship?
I am a 29 year old man who never felt in love. I have been approached by a Brazilian girl who recently joined our office. She is 19 and very attractive. Ever since she joined she has asked for a relationship through her friends as she does not speak good English. She worked as a chambermaid, I being a financial accountant.

As I am going to Nepal in 3 months time and would probably choose a girl to marry. You never know whether you will find the suitable match in 3 weeks time or not.

Her friends say I am not a numb but trying to be clever as I have not responded to their constant push.

I felt I owe her at least a word either yes or no.

What do you guys suggest what should I do? As she is the first person who has expressed her interest towards me, I have some feelings for her. If I ended up getting engaged in 3 months time, god knows where this relationship will drag me.

Suggestions appreciated

brizilian chick ! better not to miss her for short time ..

long term relations .. whom you recently met ... NO WAY !!!

Well, I am no good at this matter butI can share my thinking, will it make a difference to what answer you are looking for or not is for you to deciede.

I would say there's a BIG age gape between you two. And in the west the girls always fall in love and not all are as realiable as eastern girls. Love is blind and does not see age or sex or what ever, but you should think about what you want in your future.
You might also want to think that falling in love and breaking up here in the west is very normal, but it is not normal in Nepal. So if you want a Nepali girl then forget this girl, coz this girl can take it but the Nepali girl might be able to, and also because of our socity, The nepali girl live may become hell.

If you want a test of this Brasilian girl, then be cold and try it, it will not harm anybody, not even her coz the realationship has not gone too deep or serious, It would do more harm if it did.

I am saying this coz I am also a man and am 26, and enjoy life before marrige.
Women don't say that we men are a pig withoug a reason, and I always prove them Right.

A you know although the Pigs are in deep sh*t, They enjoy it.

Look far at the horizon before taking steps. What might happen if you have short term relationship with the Brazilian girl.

1. She might hunt you, thinking she's in love and then later you broke your heart.
2. She might mess up your relationship with your future wife.
3. She might start blackmailing you.
4. A nineteen yr old - she is just a girl...and you're supposed to be a man! Act like one!

Shes jus 19,i think shes too young for you..

Go, get laid.

It's always good to have experiences of all sorts before getting married. See what I am saying?

anjeet if you truly love her and if she does the same marry her dude.
don't care what does say cause LOVE is blind.
afterall it's your life together with her once you two get maaried.
don't listen to other people too much
marry her and take with you to nepal. then once you reach nepal marry her again.
get blessing from your parents. i'm sure that your parents would be veri happy cause each and every parent wants to see their childdren happy.

I don't understand why people of 29 cannot make these simple decisions by themselves.

Wot? He hardly know that gurl,bornfree.So dun give him such suggestions.

then what am i supposed to do Shweeta dahling? la timi lay suggest gora na tha.
once they get maaried they wouldf have their whole life to know each other better.
and if things turn out fine then both would be celebrating 25th years marriage anniversaary. if else they can always go to the court and file divorce within a week.

now you tell me why is it so complex.

Well, I do not truly agree with bornfree in this matter. Young girls are always intrested in older guys, coz they believe older guys have experience. As I said try and get laid with this girl couple of time without involving yourself too deep into the relationship, then you will se the result. And as I can understand from anjeet, that she is brazilian and does not speak good english, well Communication will be a problem for you two. You can say that you both understand love's language. Well I will say that it is Hindi movie tal. Be realistic.

I may be wrong, but it sounds as if she is an immigrant who wants green card or so. If so then I will say bone her and say see ya arround, and stay the hell away from her coz it is you who will be hurt very badly.

Suyog i guess you watched hindi too much k. In realistic life things won't work as Hindi movie. In Hindi movie only good guys win. bad guys always lose. so it is biased.
also in hindi people would be singin abd dancing arounf the trees.
in real life there's no such equation..

since she's a brazillian she must be good in soccer. soccer is universal. therefore they won't have any communication problem.

Lol @ don.

bornfree, jai ho timro

Bornfree,you are talking non sense

I would postpone my marriage for a year or 2 for a brazilian tail.. he he

shwetaa dahling do you watch hindi movie or not?
my fav actress is Rani and Preity. My fav. actor is Amir Khan and Mitun.

also it's been more than 2 years since i last watched any hindi movie. i missed those times watching hindi films.

now you tell me.

I would go back to nepal and get married to nepali sweetheart or someone that your parents choose for you (hopefully won't be a guy).hahahah Just kidding

Thats it, case is over.

That is What I am saying bornfree, that it is Hindi movie Talk, "I live in your heard, and you live in my, who needs a house."

No affence to you Anjeet but Anjeet is saying he is still a virgin, and I am tell him go get laid. It is his sexual emotion that is in Dielema. A man who is thinking of getting married in Nepal is suddenly in Dielema for a woman who he does not even know better, and as he himself said he never been in love before. I render this as, he actually wants to try this hot cheek, And I would say Go for it Anjeet.

Be a Ghorkhali and show her what Ghorkhali are made of.

Anjeet :

if you are 29 and if you want to get laid go ahead and do it. But dont ask others in sajha coz no one is love doctor. You are old enuff to make decision for urself and if ur are asking bunch of hobos then you are mistaken my friend. Do wat ur heart desires and be ready for consequences. Face it like a man...