Mom Says:my daughter can't do that wherever she goes but USA makes mom crazy when she knows her daughter has been living together with her boyfren since she stepped into land of opportunity and even more crazy when she knows her daughter is is pregnant before she knew who is her son in law.Why do children hide reality from their ever loving parents????????????

you know i blame it on parents! stricter they keep their kids off their freedom..or say whatever they should be doing in their teenage years, it follows them, and takes a turn when they're alone, and feel like now they can achieve anything. since no one is there to tell 'em what to do and what not to do. but being mature, should count them into "knowing what is wrong and what is right". but its just the way humans are!

Hey Redstone, blame it on parents??? I don't think so! Being strict isn't any crime..they did it for our own good. And once we go abroad (from parents sight)...we should know whats right and whats wrong. After all, whats the purpose of having a brain? Blaming others for your stupidity is totally wrong.

xena is fair

maybe you don't understand! think about it if you can!
I didn't say being strict is a crime! did i even say that? i don't think so!
but human mind is they way it is!! you can't change it by arguement!

someone tells you not to do something, and you have to do it.
and then end result comes out from parents, how they're raised! and i did mention being mature means " knowing what is right and wrong!" did you even read completley?

umm...sorry...your theory looks quite complicated..but if you think that the way you were raised plays an important factor in making your decisions later..it is true. After all, nothing is simple.

But then, like I said...we R humans...we should know whats right and wrong in the end. My theory is simple, red stone...euta line matrai cha. We are to be blamed for our own action.

i said blame it on parents about hiding the truth, because they are strict!

i didn't blame parents for having a baby!

i luve california, thanx :) Too bad I am not ruling Nepal :D

helloooo? who is talking about having a baby? kura kaata laagauncha?? Hiding the truth from kids? Well, why do you think they hide the truth? Do you think they do it on purpose? They hide truths sometimes to protect us! We can't blame them for that, can we?

GEEZ, are you reading the whole thread or a line and replying!
waste of my time!

hahaha! Someone just waved a white flag :D

not really, i waved a white flag on your studpidty of not reading properly!! :-D

My stupidity on not reading properly? It's your stupidity of kura ghumaauning. U never get things to the poing. Stop going in circles. Taauko khaancha.

wow! what an arguement....

i think you both r right in your own way...
i agree parents sudnt be too strick on thier childrens there are other ways too , to persuade the child in good direction, without being too much strict.

n i agree with u too xena, we cant blame our parents for our mistake...

peace ya'll

okay, lemme make myself clear before i go to sleep!

girls hide about living with a guy and having a baby because her parents are strict! and if her parents were open about what she has to face in life, and had let her experience (NOT FuKING AND HAVING A BABY OF COURSE) but other stuff, this type of situation would never arise!

and
"i didn't blame parents for having a baby" was as ...i didn't blame parents "strictness" for their daughters to have a baby!"

if this is still not clear, then i can't do anything about this, you FINGURE out yourself!

now u say it! this is what u said earlier " i didn't blame parents for having a baby! " U cud have made it more clear! :@


About gals having babies and living with guys....they should know in the first place not to have a baby...doh..who would want kids when you are so young. And for living with bf..as long as the parents don't get affected by it...do what U want.

Xenu,
कुरा सुन न, अब यो राताढुगेंले बुवाको खल्तिबाट १०० रुपियाँ चोर्यो रे।मानुम् एकछिनलाई।
बुवाको दोष भो रे के उसको हेराइमा।

"सानोमा पैसा नचोर भनेर दिनदिनै गालि ग-यो, त्यसैले आज गालि नग-या दिन चैँ चोरे नि हुन्छ होला भुनेर चो-या?" रे क्या।
भनेपछि उसलाई बिहान बिहान उठेर "आज पैसा नचोर छोरो!" भन्नुपर्ने भो।

haha!
dada always with practicle examples!:)

blend the conclusion of xena and redstone---------->>>ryt there u get the answer!

दादा गिरि पनि कुरै नबुझि उदाहरण दिदिने भन्?या ।

तिम्रो र मेरो भनेको कुरा को छेउ टुप्?पो नाता छैन

लु हेर! आमा बाउ ले जति पैसा नचोर भन्?छन नि केटाकटीलाई तेत्?नै बच्?चा हरु
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we all know that if someone tells us not to do certain things, we have to do it! don't look the left, and you look to the left! don't try to prove me wrong on that!

This thread is getting weird. I think what red really meant was when girls in Nepal are kept in their respecting homes with a lot of severity and strictness they are not reallt that close and free with their parents. They have a certain fear and they really dont get to do what they want when in Nepal. So when they come to the US they think that they have all the freedom in the world and do what they want. They do stuff that they had once dreamt of but were never allowed to do and some of those stuff are BAD. AND they cant tell their parents about it because of course they know that its BAD. You cant really blame you parents for that but it is true that if the parents had initiated a friendly and open relatin with their kids the result might have been a bit different.

I dont know where the baby thing fits in but then well... I think that both Xena and Red are right in their own way.. just a misunderstanding in between!