Dear my frens,

This a request to my all nepali frens and family to give me the advice on my family issue.......

My parents [Disallowed String for - Bad word 'fuk']ing expect money from me all the time.... which is good but i am not the one putting of my all young life to work and sending money to nepal.......... Am i getting evil or i am just supposed to send them money all the time...... 

I cant work like i used work... I want to slow down...just enjoy my life here...i know they got to enjoy their life to and i do understand that  they have actually sacrified their life for us... i do understand that but how long am i supposed to send money ...i got the wife to take care of ... i going to nepal in November but nobody is happy...i dont have lots of money to give them too ... 


just tell me wht i have to do.....cause the money we make is not easy money...... we actually work like a dog and at the end of the month there is no money to enjoy our young life......... so how long its gonna last like this..... 

Straight out some of ur parents think u r a dollar cow.stop that , tell them that u can't help more than 100 bucks a month. I have seen some real selfish parents who like to brag about bigger house in Nepal while their son/daughter is working like a donkey in foreign land. Make them come here and work if they want the money so bad to show off. But if they are sick or in debt its a totally different story. Sending a siblinhg to school is also a diff case but don't get bankrupt while u try to make them a doc. Think about ur future too. What if u get sick tomm and can't work 60 hrs? Are they going to sell the house and send u the money. I highly doubt that from such selfish parents. Try that, tell them u got some real money crunch and need them to send u some money ans see if they do

@ AAP BHI NA--Go ahead, take out all ur frustrations.
--Empty vessels sound the most.
--Coz u r working in a project, you should be thinking u r the greatest of all people who come to sajha.
--Ok now with your big fonts,cry foul words on me ( I am really thinking what kind of person you are..)

months   Monethly saving                         Money Sent To NEPAL/month                     Net  Money Saved                       HOURS Worked

   1.               1500                                                   1000                                                         500/month                                   60 hours

  2.                3000                                                    1000                                                        1000                                              60 hours

 3.                 4500                                                   1000                                                          1500                                             60 hours


1yr                 18000                                                 1000                                                         6500                                             60 hours


5 yrs              90,000                                               1000                                                        32500                                            60 hours


IN 5 yrs YOU  would have 90,000 dollars. This money U COULD HAVE BEEN INVESTED HERE and make 3000 per month with that money.... Thats how u should go..... invest money that generates money........ even students would have almost around 45000 ...look that money is a lot money .... I would have that much money ...guess wht i have 345 dollars in my account..... i have to work another five years to collect that 90,000 ... by the time i do that my 20s is gone.... and also i may not be able to save that much because there is no end of asking money from parents side.......... 


THats why i am frustrated........where iS MY 90,000 dollars gone......?? By now,  i would have made 3000 per month working less hours......

@justcan'tgetenough: Dude, you sure are a freakin kid. I don't think you got the point and didn't understand what i wrote on the previous post. Your thinking give you the impression of who you are. Stop bitching about how much money you would save when you are 30's or 40's. As you get older, you have family and kids then you need to pay mortgage. In the mean time, you have savings of $0 in your bank account. That's what american life is. Whatever you earn doesn't get saved if you live an american standard of living.

Stop bitching about your parents and tell them you can only send $500 instead of $1000 because you have to pay for your college and that is if you are going to college. I don't think you go to college because you cannot work 60 hrs every week and you can't save that much money. So if you are a GHANTA guy, you have no choice of working less than 40 hours because you can't survive without it.

Peace

Sirus_Me

 months   Monethly saving                         Money Sent To NEPAL/month                     Net  Money Saved                       HOURS Worked

   1.               1500                                                   1000                                                         500/month                                   60 hours

  2.                3000                                                    1000                                                        1000                                              60 hours

 3.                 4500                                                   1000                                                          1500                                             60 hours


1yr                 18000                                                 1000                                                         6500                                             60 hours


5 yrs              90,000                                               1000                                                        32500                                            60 hours


IN 5 yrs YOU  would have 90,000 dollars. This money U COULD HAVE BEEN INVESTED HERE and make 3000 per month with that money.... Thats how u should go..... invest money that generates money........ even students would have almost around 45000 ...look that money is a lot money .... I would have that much money ...guess wht i have 345 dollars in my account..... i have to work another five years to collect that 90,000 ... by the time i do that my 20s is gone.... and also i may not be able to save that much because there is no end of asking money from parents side.......... 


THats why i am frustrated........where iS MY 90,000 dollars gone......?? By now,  i would have made 3000 per month working less hours......

 DOOSE BACK? LOL

Do you remember the guy who had been senting money from UK and wanted to go to school. His brother and sister got F1 visa and wanted to more money.
Who ever had send moeny and help family , you did your fair share. But every body need to learn where to stop and when to stop. If you are not able to keep the boundry then you will be the next to write another story.
Once you stop sending money they will turn around and you are no more their son or daughter. Do not be a milking cow, not saying do not help. But know your limitation.

I am with aap bhi naa bro. Please don't make your baggage public and money doesn't buy parents.

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 look i know this is public place...but it is what it is...... we all wanna move forward..... ONCE U HAVE MONEY>>> U CAN REGENERATE THAT MONEY>>>> then take care of ur parents when ur money make money itself.... u guys will be behind so bad ........... watch...

@ anon

We are not trying to buy parents from money!! The individual life U have should not be governed from ur parents otherwise u will be ghanta girl or ghanta boy all the time... We gotta move on...We gotta life to live......... 

जननि जन्म भूमिस्च स्वर्गादपि गरियसि--लाइ परिवर्तन गरि अब यसो भन्नु पर्ला 
पत्नि परभूमिस्च स्वर्गदपि गरियसि--अर्थात पत्नि र परदेश स्वर्ग भन्दा पनि प्यारो हुन्छ।  

नोट:यो मेरो धारणा भने होइन है।

 @ ati bho

timro dharana chai k ho ni sathi.....  tradition ko pachhi lagera yo beautiful life lai ruin garaunu parchha jasto lagchha timilai......

 we gotta solve this issue

 k bhannu hunchhani ta yesma

 

FYI: Lord buddha was a crown prince.Am I not understanding or ur arguments are too dumb. Sorry to be rude.

You failed the Test.  Goddess Laxmi always test your  ATTITUDE  before she wants to UPGRADE your  WEALTH AND FORTUNE.

 anon: agra ko kura garda gagra bujhney timlaye k upnam deu khai....:)

 @justcantgetenough: 
I can see your argument and your point of view. If the amount going to your parents is unreasonable, you should simply decrease the amount by having a "man-to-man" dialogue. Hopefully, your parents are reasonable people.

However, if the money going to your parents is reasonable by Nepali standards and considering other factors like loans, etc. and money is being used for necessities and not showing off, it's a different issue now. Here, I'd recommend go for a win-win scenario and not, a win-lose scenario. Create a picture where both parties can win. Kind of like a dialectic. Be creative. I would take it as an opportunity to learn and teach something to/from your family. I can see one way out for a win-win scenario: By insisting on investing your money in Nepal and not simply using it as a cash cow. I am not a finance guru but an engineer so ask someone with more experience in this regard.

My dui paisa.