Thanks to everyone who helped me to understand my love, but now I am in a big problem...... Here is a letter from my sister whom I told about my love hoping that she would help me...... PLZ help me again.............

Ohi tero barema baba harule pani taha pahunu bayo
tahile phone garda mom le tala bata suni raknu baheko rahecha
Ani ta chai ke pagal bako ni ma ta talahi samajdar samjante ta ta fantoos po rahechas
tero ahile love sov garne bela cha ki afno carrier banahune bela cha
Pahila apno life bana tespachi balla testa kurama laglas,peri affir chalahunu pani apusanga milne keti sanga ni balla 9 class ma padne keti sanga ,tahile kohi keti pahinas ra testo bachha sanga affiar chlaheko,tyo banda ramro keti pani ta pahihalchas ni.
Baba Mummy tero kura sunera sarahi chintit hunhuncha.mom le la talahi yeso bannu baheko cha, talahi behe garna testo yechha cha bane tahile kojerko jasto keti sanga baba mummy le apahi behe gari dinu huncha re tesahi ta sabai le baba lahi tero choro Mithun rasiko ho 4 ota behe garcha banera jagada gareka chan.
Ani talahi baba mummy ko ejjat ko kahal chaihna. jhan baba mummy le ta bata thulo asa garnu baheko tiyo ta keke na holas banera jan ta testo kura garchas,baba lahi ta tahi le chine ko nahi chas teyo kura taha pahepachi nikahi tense hudahi hunuhunthiyo
malahi tyo keti ko no magdahui hunhunthiyo mahile bekar ma jmela huncha banera dihina,pahila ta mahile pani tahile jokes gareko holas bnne soche ko tihe pachi phone garepachi po sachikahi rahecha banne taha pahe
lastly,ta apahi thulo bahisakais ,kunahi pani kura garna banda agadi ramrari soch,sabahilahi hasahune kam na gar
Bye

Frns, I am even afraid to call home. My gal frn would also be waiting for my phone but I don't know If I need to call her. I feel really guilty for my DAD, MOM, And THE GAL I LOVE. HELP ME...

I guess that you should follow your heart, and decide on your own. All your family wants are your happiness. Though your decision may make unhappy at the moment, but if you can convince this is your happiness, then they'll have to understand it eventually. Many people sacrifice their likes for the sake of parents, and follow whatever their parents say. But if you're going to be unhappy by following your parent's wishes, your parents gonna regret for their decision, and will be unhappier with your unhappiness. I've seen the example and that is a typical case in nepali society whether one realize it or not. But that does not mean that you've to go against your parent's will all the time. You've to be responsible for your decision, and as you decide for yourself; if anything goes wrong, then you can't blame anyone. It's also about being brave and to take the decision on your own. But meanwhile the responsibility also lies on you to convince your parents that this is your happiness, and this is all you want, and you are still gonna work hard for whatever you're doing, and it is not gonna affect any of your works, and your future career; but will only strengthen it.

hahahahaha
Prem ma manche pagal hunchan bhanee sune ko thiyee...

mr bond u r absolutely rt>>> ija dekhoye pani...prem ma pagal vhakoe manchay......life is ttooooooooooooooooooooooo long dude...just keep rolling.......there is a long way to go...just take it easy yaar.......let thing happen...u move on..just simple chill.........cool oit yaar........rum dudeeee..u know what just go on..n there will be a day where solution will be infront of u ..don' chase solution..ur amking it more complicated...

hey guys,

since Rum is not replying, i want to change track a little. Everybody else seems to have said only one thing "listen to ur heart". .... but guys tell me honestly don't u think we can control or at least guide our "heart" upto a certain extent?

that was my main question my other side question would be do u guys feel that "love" is a very hyped concept. (much more than sex)? Just asking ..or should i say wondering.

have a great weekend

Dhatteri bro....Barbad bhayo ni....Yo kanda uhile mero afnai life ma bhako thiyo yaar...Aba k garne taha chha...Didi is into u hoina...euta ramro kura....U r in US ...sabai mildai jancha ni bru......K garne yaar.....Estai ho k bru....Aja yah ata bholi kaha.....Maya piratee ma rake jasto villianharu ai rahanchhan k ...Sabai kura milcha ni bru ko...Jhan mithun rasi raichha bru.......Mithun ko ta 2062 saal pachi sabai ramro hunchha...Mai bahun ko chora ho...la maile bhanide sake...so bru...chill out.....ettikai chinta naleu k hai.....we r with u...hai ta...aba cool hai....

It was so difficult to read in english.....
so i converted to nepali --- just copied it and pasted in Roman - unicode converter....

ओहि तेरो बारेमा बबा हरुले पनि तहा पहुनु वेओ
तहिले फोन गर्दा मोम ले तला बाट सुनी रक्नु बहेको रहेछ
अनी त चै के पगल बको नि म त तलही समाजदर सम्जन्ते त त फ्यानतूस पो रहेचस
तेरो अहिले लभ सोव गर्ने बेला छ कि आफ्नो काररिएर बनहुने बेला छ
पहिला अप्नो लाईफ बना तेस्पछी बल्ल तेस्ता कुरम लग्लस्,पेरी अफ्फिर चलहुनु पनि अपुषअङ मिल्ने केटी सँग नि बल्ल ९ क्लस्स म पढ्ने केटी सँग ,तहिले कोही केटी पहिनाश र टेस्टओ बछ सँग अफ्फिअर च्लहेको,त्यो बन्द राम्रो केटी पनि त पहिहल्चस नि ।
बबा मुम्मी तेरो कुरा सुनेर सरही चिन्तित हुन्हुन्छ ।मोम ले ल तलही एसो बन्नु बहेको छ, तलही बेहे गर्न टेस्टओ एछ छ बने तहिले कोजेर्को जस्तो केटी सँग बबा मुम्मी ले अपही बेहे गरी दिनु हुन्छ रे तेशाही त सबै ले बबा लही तेरो छोरो मिथुन रसिको हो ४ वटा बेहे गर्छ बनेर जगदा गरेका चन ।
अनी तलही बबा मुम्मी को ईज्जत को कहाँल चैह्न । झन बबा मुम्मी ले त बाट ठुलो अस गर्नु बहेको तियो त केके न होलस बनेर जन त टेस्टओ कुरा गर्चस्,बबा लही त तही ले चिने को नही चस तेयो कुरा तहा पहेपछी निकही तेन्से हुँदाही हुनुहुन्थियो
मलही त्यो केटी को नो मग्दहुइ हुन्हुन्थियो महिले बेकर म ज्मेल हुन्छ बनेर दिहिन,पहिला त महिले पनि तहिले जोकस गरेको होलस ब्न्ने सोछे को तिहे पछी फोन गरेपछी पो सचिकही रहेछ भन्ने तहा पहे
लस्त्ल्य्,ता अपही ठुलो बहिसकैस ,कुनही पनि कुरा गर्न बन्द अगाडि राम्ररी सोच्,सबहिलही हशाहउने कम न गर
बाइ

I think your sister is right

grt job!!!!!xsajha..................keep it up

Hahahaha! :)

Sajhabusaim, I am 19 rite now and the gal I love is 17.
Biswa, Yup I am the guy whom U met in the chat room.
Disco senti , thanks for Ur suggestion.
Lady in red My heart doesnot show me any way out, coz I can't choose between my love and my parents. Both are equally important.

Soory for being late to reply. I told U guy that I would post my conversation with that gal in coming weeks. But this week I was ashamed to call home, and I didn't have the mood to call the gal. Coz I would feel like I am giving more importance to the gal. N that way I would be selfish. Wot I have decided is that I amnot going to call my home or the gal. I want to forget my family as well as the gal. Now I am independent N can live my way of life. I think my sister betrayed me. She deliberately let my mom know about the incident.
Guys, I need ur comment. Feel free to express ur opinion.

Hareeee, ok you want my honest answer? set the girl free....she might be sad now but later she will appreciate that she will be with someone who knows what he wants in his life... sorry rum.... but this will be good for now. You said you are 19 ? God you are still so young, focus on your studies and be independent and then think about love. Not now....

hey lady give me some love counseling too yaar !! ;) Looks like u r a good Counsellor :p

Hey guys,
I talked with my love on last night(it was the morning of valentine day) in Nepal. I called her early & wished her HAPPY VALENTINE DAY. I asked her if she wanted to be my valentine. She hesigated first but said "YES" later on. That was a good dosage for me. We talked about both of our family. She told me that she talked with her brothers and Bhauju about our love.
But then come the gossip of my rival. The guy infront of my luv's house who also love her. She wanted me to come to Nepal soon and tell that guy not to interfere with her any more. She gave me his phone number too.
Now wot am I supposed to say that guy? I am suspicious again about their relationship. How come she remember his phone number that she can just tell me in secs. Did she had affir with that guy and they used to call each other. I know I don't need to be more suspicious If I really belive in her but.........

ru m dude, do not call him.... look life is too long, you never know what will happen tomoroow. suspecious? yes human nature, there is nothing wrong if u doubt...doubt makes u mature. lets see if u call him . first what u gonna say him? and if he really loves her n care for her. that is not his misatke nor his crime. but to be honest with yoyu, why ur gf doesnot talk to him tell him everything. u r third person here. i don't understnad ur gf here?....but just think not 2 times but 3 times here becaoz the case is very sensetive and offcourse invoving 3 hearts"the greast crime breking someone hearst and u never can fix that"

rum,
trust (O: .. if you cannot trust then better walk away from it.

thapap!!!!!! runnig away, ? there is no reason for it. just go ahead.running away from problem is not a solution..in our socitey that is called cowadnece.

I also cannot understand her. But I am not going to walk away alone. She is with me. Then I can't understand how I am third person. I am not angry with the guy but If he cares more and love that gal more than me and if that gal is with him I would walk away. But I don't think he would care her much as I does.

I think I need to call him. But DISCO_SENTI can u make a virtual conversation of wot I can say. How am i gonna approach the situation?

Listen to pthapa, no trust no love, so just move on...

You are 19; still in teens. You can basically do anything and still laugh at it when 20s hits you.

Just do whatever, tomorrow is another day! You might feel like you are between a rock and a hard space, but the fact is, you are only collecting memoirs to laugh down the years.

Thanks for the merriment :)

Atsu!

IndisGuise:)

i am 28 and still laugh at whatever happens

rum soory for the late reply..hijo ali badi emotional vhaya tehi vhayara...
the first thing , i am very poor at conversation, afue paray thadoe manchay jay cha agadie vhanay bani...look i won't tell you that ur still young..age doesn't make any difference., a child is a father of a man...but still honestly wait for another couple of years..becoz life is a compromise. again i am telling you do not call him call your gf tell her to explain to him...hope he will undersatrnd, if not still nothing, becoz love is crazy, but time makes everything rt.just think one time placing yourself in his place, what u have done..ok just take it easy ..this is just the begging of ur life we have already passed this phase of life