Hi,
I got this wierd experience regarding online relations. Do you guys trust? or how you approach with it?

online relations can be very addictive...and it tends to go around on the philosphy of wat comes around goes around.....

one of the biggest downfall i see in this type of relation is the issue of unequality. what i mean by this is, the two parties invovled in the relationship, one of them ends up having to make more compromises & sacrifices than other...and i know love is about sacrifice n compromise...but in a normal relationship we choose to compromise or sacrifice but in an online relationship one has to...just for instance the basic of all, one of the party would have to leave his or her hometown, job, friends, and everything else to be with the other party.....i've seen n heard women taking this role most of the time and i dont think its fair for them. especially in a new place and if she thought the man of her dream wasn't exactly like what she thought, there is almost no support system for her that exist in the new place and new enviornment and more times than not she will yet again end up making more compromises n sacrifices....and same can be applied to men too if they choose to take on this role.

i dont really have a lesson or point to my statement...cause i truly belive people can be happy no matter what if they choose to be....thus happiness is a choice :)

i wish our friend rrr all the best...if u can, share ur thoughts once u come back from ur tirp.

p.s. thanks badarnikt for sharing the link to a very cute real life story..i enjoyed reading it :)

i mean to say wat goes around comes around....sorry im dyslexic :(

here

you are welcome happy

guys be a member of adult friend finder online...............honestly, it works so many horney womens..........man i have found so many gals from there who only wants sex no relation..............sexonline works...........

www.adultfriendfinder.com

It is sad that the majority of the posts here deem 'love' and 'sex' synonymous. It need not be so. Maybe, this is one of the reasons why people find it hard to form stable relationships these days, especially online. When it's sex you are looking for rather than a true friendship, it is little wonder that the relationships formed with this type of mindset don't last. I totally disagree with the propostition that onine relationships equates sex-- or nothing. I enjoy healthy friendships with numerous chat friends of mine. Had it only been for sex, none of these tenuous bonds would have lasted for any lenght of time. I am not a puritan, not by a long shot; but I am not ready to believe that all inter-gender affiliations online need only be centered around sex.

And I agree with many friends that if the initial acquaintances are furthered through face-to-face meetings, the relationships may only be bolstered-- a few exceptions notwithstanding.

Frens,
Now she is backing up that her BF will get mad or so. HOw Do I trust on her. I do like her as she chat with me but what if she is married and her husband is wating for me to kick my ass.....I know she is reading this post if so. I really don't mind to go to see her as a fren rather than sex....heheheh

rrrr loser, u not get any boys so you after girls who is married and have boyfriend. Try going out with a monkey instead after they do their part they will not say you that their boyfirne will come to beat you up.

hehehe thanks Tocu_the sky I will consider it

It depends on the person and their thoughts. As for me YES I do believe in online relationship. Peace Out..............

Are you a gay? HOmosexual ? May be I Should ask date with U....

Are you talking to me rrr. I am a beautiful girl working in Honk Kong and my boyfriend is Limbu and we will get married in July. So you can also come to the wedding but no bringing your sister that naked model. If she wants to come then she will have to wear full body clothes.

sorry I don't like to come to ppls who0o judge ppl with thier clothing....I am sorry and take my precious wording back about Homosexual without knowing who you are...
But I don't want to miz two topics here and really don't want to judge you just with two point of view..so sorry but ..if you are getting married...Congratulation!!!

Online relationships work. My friend met his fiance online. Two months after the engagement, he flew to Seatle to see her for the first tme and they broke up shortly thereafter. In conclusion, online relationships never work.

we often hear ppl saying"Let him make use of instinct who cannot make use of reason."here, as we R discussing abt relationship wht i wanna say is-- The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are. And if our words and our actions come from superficial human relations techniques (the Personality Ethic) rather than from our own inner core (the Character Ethic), others will sense that duplicity. We simply won't be able to create and sustain the foundation necessary for effective interdependence.I know for me the subject of how to be in a relationship is precious and complicated and challenging. It wouldn't be right to make it look too easy. [On her approach to Mad About You]The key to any good relationship, on-screen and off, is communication, respect, and I guess you have to like the way the other person smells -- and he smelled real nice. As we know
The easiest kind of relationship is with ten thousand people, the hardest is with one.

It is the things in common that make relationships enjoyable, bit it is the little differences that make them interesting. well talking abt OnLIne RElaTIoNShip there is presence of words rather than action which might be just our perception more than a reality ...so as if we try to limit it in net then it works a lot but trying to activate in real life practically might not b always good idea as person has to face disaster in relationship very often.usually person makes high expections,falls imagination n wrong perception abt the onl-partner as they judge each-other through words n the limited movement they have 2gether which might b result as illusion after having real meeting so its proven onl relationships works rearly in real life .

Great arguments..Sahina...I agree....

HEY DUDE UR SO WRONG THAT GIRLS MET IN THE CHAT ROOM ARE FATý.. LET ME TELL U MY STORY, I AM A BEAUTIFUL, SMART, INTELLIGENT, EDUCATED AND AMBITIOUS GIRL. I STUDIED IN ONE OF THE BEST COLLEGE IN INDIA. WELL ONE NIGHT I MET A NICE GUY ON ONE OF THE POPULAR CHAT ROOM (I WAS IN NEPAL), WE CLICKED IN AN INSTANCE THEN WE BECAME GOOD FRENS. IT HAPPENED AROUND 2000, MOREOVER WE USED TO CHAT FOR ALMOST FIVE HOURS A DAY INFACT WE WERE ALREADY CLOSE (KIND OF GOING AROUND). I USED TO SHARE EVERY SINGEL STUPID THINGS GOING AROUND IN MY LIFE AND SO DID HE (HE WAS IN USA). ALL MY SIBLING WERE IN USA SO I DID PLAN TO COME HERE FOR FURTHER STUDIES AND AT THE SAME TIME I WANTED TO DESPERATELY MEET HIM(I WAS ALL OVER HIM) . ON 2001 I CAME HERE HOPING TO FULL FILL MY DREAMS, BUT THE WROST THING WAS HE WAS ALREADY MARRIED (ALREADY 1 MONTH) ANDWAS FREAKING F--- LIAR. I WAS MENTALLY STRESSED OUT AND STOPPED TALKING TO HIM BUT STILL HE USED TO CALL ME ý. WASNýT THAT WEIRED??? ý. JUST GOT MARRIED BUT CALLING ME. NOW ITS 2004 AND HE STILL CALLS ME ý.. AND TELLS ME THAT HE DID A BIG MISTAKE. SO THE QUESTION IS WHOSE LOSS??? DEFINITELY NOT MINE COZ I ýM DATING MUCH BETTER AND SMART LOOKING GUY THAN HIM ý. EVERTHING HAPPENS FOR THE BEST. I WAS NOT GOING AROUND THAT TIME COZ I WAS TOO PICKY AND NOT READY FOR COMMITMENT. REGARDING FAT GIRLS ý.. WOULD U GO ON A DATE WITH SLIM GIRLS WHO IS DUMB OR AVERAGE GIRL WHO IS SMART AND HAVE GOOD PERSONALITY ý. ??? AT LAST I THINK BEAUTY LIES IN THE EYE OF THE BE-HOLDER. DONýT BE TOO PICKY ELSE U WILL END UP MEETING STUPID, FREAKY AND LIAR. FOR UR KIND INFORMATION I AM SLIM GIRL WITH GOOD HEART ....SO WATCH OUT ...U NEVER KNOW WITH WHOM U GONNA BUMB. ONLINE RELATIONSHIP IS TOTALLY BASED ON ON HIGH EXPECTATIONS BUT MIGHT WORK WELL DEPENDING ON UR MOTIVE.

ive seen them work

kabhi ha...kabhi na...online or offline :o)..
u never know...until u try ...so Carpe Diem!..


live with no regrets :o)....if it doesnt work...move on..knowing u tried...(hopefully tried ur best hehe..)if it does work.....good for u and the other person :o)....if it didnt work out..well bad for u..worse for the other person..their loss ;o) (self consoling techniques hehehe...)

ok thats me 2cents worth...or was it worth less?..or was it worthless?hehe..amazing what a typo can do to a meaning of a word ..

*dun read from here all crap..just need to get rid of shit in me head...kinda brain blocked right now..typing wateva is comin to me mind ;o)..*

hope i didnt copy from anyone above...didnt read all the posts..cant be arsed..and hehe if others dun read this..thats great...an arse for an arse..if i aint givin any..dun give any back to me ;oP.....

any more "here nor there" post..that i can give me here nor there views?hehe does our posting ever changes a person perspective...say we wrote smthing which is the universal 'right'..the right 'right'..and nothing but 'right' hehe..

(dunno how if we will ever be able to know what is universally right...since we are all individuals wit diff thots..and views..individuality is what makes the world..doesnt it?makes it so good..and bad too hehe..individuality aint wrong is it?...what was the world supposed to be...was it supposed to be this way?..did smthing go wrong..in the past..way way back..that wasnt supposed to happen...and now cos of that...we all turned out wrong..what are we?..ok gonna stop on this what questions..got too many..better finish this post hehe..)

in the end..wrong or right..does our post make a freakn diff?do we just give our views..to make a diff..cos we think it might help others(who seem 'lost') understand..make them come to their sense..will it make a diff?hehehe..(well some might...some wont :o)..)or do we give our views..cos we wanna be heard..we wanna be felt..felt by someone..before we have to go...just like those millions of no ones..who are some ones to some other ppl..whom are no ones to us...(confusing aint it?confurse bro can u decipher me!!??;oP)well whatever we reasons we post for.. one thing for sure..wrong or right..glad to read all the diff views of ppl hehe...just opens up ur mind doesnt it?..well that is if u read them in the 1st place...hehe so thank u all...for the insightful views...i might not make a diff..well to me im making a diff writing this..finding how more loony i can get hehe...how more loony i am..or am i loony at all!cos those freakn ppl are staring at me right now..even when im typing here..(well not all.but some hehe...and not now..but just now..well maybe they still are..why cant we have peace when we want it..why cant we have company when we need it?..

when we have peace...why some(most/all)of us feels it aint enuf...when we have company why do sum(most/all) of us still alone..why do i feel so enlightened when im writing such loony stuffs...and why do i think its loony cos it makes sense(to me :oP) ...anyways just wanted to say..glad to contribute here..tho it might be shit and waste of database hehe..glad to piss some ppl (tho i dun mean to hehe)..gald to make some others laugh(i do mean to do that..really ;o) hehe)..some puke...(i know i can do that ;o)..)some cry..(tell me about it ;o)..)...just glad to exist and read all u views :o)...

happy existing guys...outta here

might come up with more dumb stuffs next time..i know i can....be what i wanna be...
what do i wanna be?i know...be happy :o)..nah !..i wanna see topahni happy..and well some other ppl too hehe..well all of u i guess...so freakn start crying now wahahaha...

no time now...as always :o(...blabbers to be continued(hopefully :oP)

have fun...

danny..

dyam i miss that topahni :o) dyam anonimity is great!sajha is great! u all are great!hehe

Thank you everybody for all response!
My experience...She is very nervous to meet but she did...I resoect her for that although most of the things she mention on chat are all lied adn just prolong the conversations...But she is cute as well..kinda chubby but cute...We are good fren and Will think about further later in the future. I am glad I made this move ...I think It is worthy and gain one of the most imp thing is life... experience and Frenship